I've been working there for around a month and I'm fairly new to the industry. There are things I've seen that make me feel uncomfortable and I feel like they shouldn't be happening.
I have seen poo on the floor in random corners of the home.
There is a lady whose birthday it had been one day. I wasn't in that day but noticed it on the calendar when I went back. She seemed surprised and apparently staff hadn't told her or celebrated it in any way. She doesn't have a diagnosis of dementia and she's lucky to still have quite a sharp mind so I don't think they told her and she forgot, I think they just didn't tell her.
There is a lady who likes to be up early. She is wheelchair bound and needs 2 carers to get her out of bed. She asked on the shift I was on to get up at 4am. The 2 colleagues I was shadowing said no it's too early. She said it doesn't matter, I'd like to get up. They said no again and just left the room to her shouting for help.
There is a lady with Parkinson's who needs assistance with eating. They give her an apron but the food ends up everywhere, I tried to help her one day and they told me not to bother as she tries it on with new staff and she can feed herself perfectly well. I have observed her eating by herself and the food still gets absolutely everywhere.
I find some carers too over familiar, saying "love you" to residents at bedtime and kissing them on the cheek/forehead. Some of them have quite a 'bantery' relationship and one colleague told a male resident that his bottom 'absolutely reeked' which I still think is unprofessional.
On one of my first shifts I went to give a resident her dinner in her room and both her and her sheets were soiled with faeces, so I changed her and cleaned the bed, it didn't take more than 5 minutes. When I got back, the senior carer was furious that I hadn't been there to hand out the rest of the plates and said I should make her wait next time.
Stuff like that. I'm not sure about the manager's attitude to the people she cares for either. One day some residents were arguing and being agitated so she just muttered "I'm out, I've had enough."
We have a lady with dementia who can be verbally abusive towards us. The manager joked to us that she "Likes the difficult ones as they're a good challenge."
Just not sure what to think of these issues