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Should I speak with the teachers about this ?

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Zee23 · 23/06/2021 14:14

Hi everyone so was just looking for some answers about what other people thought about this before I think about doing something about it.

There is a little boy in my daughters class, his dad usually brings him and picks him up from school,I see them most days as we usually arrive at the same time and at the kids school we have to queue up outside the gate when dropping off/picking up.

For the past few weeks I’ve noticed this child’s father, who has a small daughter who he usually brings with him, I’d say she was around 2, definitely no more than 3 years old. His son is 5 the same as my daughter they are both in reception,so still very young children. I’ve noticed for a few weeks now he literally leaves the kids alone in the queue in the morning when he wants to move his car or if he seems to forget something from his car, he just leaves them both their ( remember they are 5 and about 2) and crosses the street. Last Friday I was walking to collect my daughter up from school and I walked past this parents car and saw his young daughter asleep in the car in her car seat all alone,whilst he was waiting on the other side of the road in the queue to pick up his son, he was stood on the queue for about 5 mins and it takes around 5 mins to get around the school and out again due to the one way system, i thought it was irresponsible because even though it was a short amount of time anything could have happened to her, she could have woke up crying or god knows what.

So anyway this morning I go to drop my kids off at school as usual,see him waiting in the queue with his son ( no daughter ) queued behind him and literally seen him go across the street to his car, take out his young daughter from the back seat and put her in the front passenger seat of the car and rolled down the window for her,locked her in and went back to the queue with his son, I was right behind them in the queue and when I was leaving school he was just getting into his car,there was no other adult in the car so again he literally left his young child alone in the car to drop of his son,this time full my awake, in the front seat with the window down,she could have been taken,considering he put her in the front what if she would have touched something or touched the clutch. After seeing this again I have been thinking about bringing this up to my daughters teacher as I’m concerned anything could happen and god knows how many times he has been leaving his child in the car alone as I’ve already seen him do it twice.

Wdyt? Should I tell the teacher

OP posts:
Jemimapuddleduk · 23/06/2021 14:50

How about you offer to queue with and then walk down to school the little boy?

Jayceewhy · 23/06/2021 14:50

If it was really on a hill you put that in your OP not several comments in because no one is feeling as outraged as you wanted.

Tell on him if you want, they’re unlikely to do anything if not a pattern of behaviour - and certainly nothing that you’ll be told about.

KimmyAndMe · 23/06/2021 14:53

A 2 year old should be restrained in a car seat so shouldn’t have access to the handbrake or driving controls. I doubt many parents remove their children from the car to run into the garage to pay for petrol.

If it would make you feel easier by all means have a word with school staff.
Alternatively offer to wait with his son.

Rosewood017 · 23/06/2021 14:57

I would seek advice from the school, no harm in that. Poor things being left to queue alone at 5 and 2!

arethereanyleftatall · 23/06/2021 15:09

I'd just offer to take the boy in myself with my dc.

Zee23 · 23/06/2021 15:20

@Jayceewhy

If it was really on a hill you put that in your OP not several comments in because no one is feeling as outraged as you wanted.

Tell on him if you want, they’re unlikely to do anything if not a pattern of behaviour - and certainly nothing that you’ll be told about.

It is on a hill actually, i know my own child’s school thank you very much I just realised after wards plus On a normal road if the handbrake is realeased the car will still roll so don’t know why your getting so annoyed about that. And yes I am actually shocked that people think it’s acceptable to leave small children unattended at all let alone in a car where you can’t see them.
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Jayceewhy · 23/06/2021 15:22

Do you mean clutch Grin

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