I feel like my partner 37 (I am 34) seeks attention and validation from him female colleagues. I don't feel any jealousy when he's on nights out or from any of his female friends but this is bugging me.
He has headhunted only two members of staff who happen to be beautiful younger women. One of them aged 29 he gave a £60k salary to when he wasn't actively hiring for the role. I also overheard that her boyfriend felt threatened by my partner.
He was then meeting up with her and went to the gym two days in a row (he doesn't go, started grooming more than normal and got as dressed up as he would for our date night. He suffers from depression and seemed to have pulled out of it.
I just feel a little gutted that he hasn't made that effort in such a long time and it wasn't for me.
A similar thing happened last year when he was messaging the other women on whatsapp before she had started working for him. I had a feeling he had a crush on her and he started being really secretive about their relationship after that.
He's not cheated but it makes me feel uncomfortable - am I being unreasonable? He is really good to me aside from this.