DD14 has mocks this week. Her maths is tomorrow which despite being in set 1 she has struggled with. So it's 9pm and I go through and there she is lying looking at her phone. I say she really should be revising and then it starts. She says she doesn't know what she should be looking at so I suggest she needs to try and refresh a bit of everything. She then says she can't do this as she doesn't know what they've been learning. I then suggest ways in which she could find topics to revise and every response is a no until in the end she gets pissed off with me for not helping her. I explain it isn't me that's in the lessons and I'm trying my best but when she's negative about everything I suggest there isn't much I can do to which she tells me to forget it. Well I then got pissed off myself and snapped at her that if she's not willing to help herself then she can't expect everything to be handed to her. She has known about the mocks for 2 weeks and hasn't bothered to put any effort in.
The thing is that she is like this with everything. She does struggle with school itself and suffers anxiety and she's the same when I try and help her. Everything is a no. She has aways been a really good student but lately her work has slipped. I've been speaking to teachers etc to see how we can help but if she's not willing to put the work in then what am I meant to do.
So, am I being unreasonable to be completely worn out