First post here but I've been lurking for a while
My daughter is almost 17, she gave birth last year. When she told me she was pregnant I wasn't happy and wanted her to have an abortion (I told her I wouldn't force her though) due to her being young and her boyfriend not being very mature and he didn't seem like a nice person. That caused a lot of arguments including her boyfriend swearing at me and saying it wasn't up to me. DD then went to stay with him and his mum for a bit and he seemed to just turn her against me during that time. Not long after DD came back home, she broke up with him as he was cheating and also got involved in drug dealing, DD wanted him to stop but he refused and DD was scared of him.
DD blocked him on everything until about a month before she gave birth. They became friends and then DD gave birth and he used to come and visit etc. A few months ago they got back together and DD started going to his.
A few weeks ago DD and my grandson moved in with him and his mum and since then she's been ignoring my messages or she's telling me to stop trying to interfere (which I'm not).
I'm just so worried about DD and my grandson because he doesn't seem very nice, he seems manipulative and controlling etc.
Any advice will be appreciated