I love my husband very much but think I'm losing the love because of his weight gain.
He's a big bloke and when we met he was slightly over weight but over the last two years has gained a lot, and it's all on his stomach and around his neck and face.
I'm so worried about his health, he can't walk properly and everything is an effort like getting in and out of the car. His breathing is laboured and he snores terribly.
We have gym membership but whilst I do everything I can to stay in shape he just goes in the pool and barely swims a length.
I've tried cooking healthy meals but he will get in from work and eat a huge snack before dinner, or have several pieces of bread with every meal.
He eats loads of processed meat - if I fill the fridge with healthy things he will just go out and buy lots of fatty, sugary foods and meat.
He knows how I feel I've been unable to hold back my comments but I have gently suggested I help him by cooking low calories nutritious healthy meals but he won't listen.
His mates are very blunt telling him directly that he's fat and needs to lose weight.
He's a lovely intelligent man so why is he eating himself to death? He complains about feeling bloated and full a lot of the time and has enormous portions. I'm tired of trying to monitor his eating and feel it shows little respect for me. Sex is tricky with his massive stomach pressing against me.
AIBU wanting him to lose weight?