GreyhoundG1rl, many thanks for your concern, but I can handle my own madness, so please don't worry. What I obviously can't do, is write a coherent post where people can understand what in my head seems clear. Anyway, no worries, as somebody has obviously asked for it to be removed, but it wasn't me!
I think that in my post to the OP I implied (well that is what I was attempting to do, while maybe using a bit of poetic license as well) that if these drunken, noisy, idiotic men, again sit staring at her daughter's room for hours on end, rather than just odd glances in that direction, then the police need to go around there straight sway to stop that horrible and intimidating behaviour before it becomes a fun routine for the imbeciles. I am well aware that the police will not, and indeed cannot, drop everything and dash around to someones house on the strength of a phone call complaining about their neighbours causing an upset, because there was a group of them drinking in the neighbours garden. However, how ever innocent amthose mens actions might have been, and probably were, if we are to believe the OPs original post, her daughter was very distressed by the men staring at her nedroom window for long periods of times. The OP has also told us that her DD is medically vunerable, and about the atrocious anti-social and in fact, bullying and threatening behaviour from their neighbour on various occassions in the past, and going on that information, I think being scared and upset by these men was a perfectly reasonable reaction.
So how do you get the police to attend whilst the perpertrators of this behaviour (whether it is actually criminal or not - it often takes whole juries to come to that conclusion, so it certainly isn't possible for you or me to know how intimitating their behaviour was, or whether or not there were ANY illegal reasons for it) are still there, and still doing it. I suppose the OP could lie and say she heard gunshots and saw people mainlining in her next door garden, or, she could tell a possible truth that she felt that these men were a safeguarding threat to her daughter, and that her DD was already terrified by them, and that she - the OP - was concerned that they could actually be part of a paedophile ring. I don't see how the police could possibly ignore a call like that, and if they did attend then they would have to ask the men (hopefully individually) why they had been staring at the young girls bedroom window for ages? Their answer would almost certainly be that they didn't know it was a girl's bedroom, and that the way the bar faced that it is just in their general line of site, and they hadn't realised that they had been staring at it. Unless the police had any prior knowledge about the men they were speaking to, they would have to accept that this time, but it would be noted down, and their names taken.
If those men had any sense at all, they would never sit staring at that window again, in fact most of them would probably decide that drinking at that bar, in that garden, with it's orientation as it is, just wasn't worth the hassel, and thereby the OPs biggest problem would be solved. The OP could then go about checking planning regs and keeping a recording of the noise levels through an app on her phone, so that she could report the noise pollution to the council, and with proof of what she was saying.
I don't suppose that you now think Greyhound that there might be some method in my madness, you probably still think that I am "absolutely unhinged"? 😂 If you do still think that I am away with the fairies then fair play to you, but playing with the fairies can be great fun, but if you ever stumble across any, don't accept anything to,eat or drink from them...
Two last little notes, I re-read the MN rules as requested by MN, and it says that any other posts showing my op would be removed too, so you may need to be prepared for your post to me to be removed too (for the record, I won't be putting in any complaints about your partial copy of my post, or about you effectively calling me unhinged!)
to both you and op.