Met someone online, we’ve been talking for about a week. He’s very funny, has a great personality and felt like I’ve known him a lot longer. I have been single for a long time and I’m not into rushing things, I like to be friends for a while first and get to know someone - kind of ‘demisexual’ and old fashioned in that respect. I’ve told him all of this.
We met up for the first time last week, things were going well but then after a few drinks he kept groping me and making comments about my ass etc. The next day he apologised, blamed it on the drink and seemed really mortified. I thought okay, I like him enough to move past it (we’ve had some deep conversations and I don’t believe he’s just wanting sex). Since the date he’s started messaging more, before we’d just catch up in the evening but now it’s all day long and he says he can’t stop thinking about me etc. It all feels very rushed and I’m freaking out, but having been alone for so long I don’t know if it’s normal for things to move at this speed or just me not being ready?