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neighbor's children

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questionfromnotamom · 18/06/2021 08:48

Hello -
I am writing for advice because I'm experiencing an unusual situation.
I don't have children and live in a large city in the US. My apartment is very small and positioned in an odd spot right next-door to a storefront. One of my walls abuts the storefront's wall, and these are old buildings so I can hear some noise from next-door.
The storefront was empty for a few years, then about 6 months ago it got rented and a lot of construction was going on at all hours which left me feeling pretty annoyed.
After a while it opened as a Psychic palour. I thought fine, whatever. But shortly after the space was occupied I found out that the people running it are using it as an apartment and have at least 1 toddler and 1 baby living there full time (and 3 adults?)- how I know this is the baby cries during the day and in the middle of the night regularly, and I sometimes hear the toddler.
The children are up until 2AM regularly and frankly I think a storefront is not a place to raise young children.
I know that a lot of life situations can be out of the ordinary and that children crying is a norm. But when should someone be concerned?
I do not want to talk or confront these people because I think no matter what it will antagonize them. Am I being overly concerned? Is there a point when child protective services should be called?
Part of me is wondering how the people there can stay as it must affect the tenants above them. I don't understand how the landlord could have rented the space out to them in the first place. But ultimately I'm concerned for the children - maybe I should just let it go.
I would appreciate any advice or suggestions. Thank you

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FuckyouCovid21 · 18/06/2021 09:14

So you said that a lot of construction has been going on, maybe they've made it into an apartment?

Not sure what you mean about how can they stay as it must affect the tenants above them? Surely this is the downside of living in a flat/apartment, neighbours above, below and to the side potentially?*

*If it has been made into an apartment that is

questionfromnotamom · 18/06/2021 09:53

It's a commercial space. The people that moved in did the construction themselves and probably did it illegally because the space is zoned for a shop

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RedMarauder · 18/06/2021 09:56

If it is a commercial space and they are illegally living there then isn't there some district office or something that administers commercial spaces? If so complain to them.

SilverDragonfly1 · 18/06/2021 10:26

As I understand it, the housing situation in the US is as bad as it is here- hugely overpriced and in short supply. This may be the only choice they feel they have right now. I wouldn't be inclined to complain to anyone unless the children are genuinely in danger, rather than a bit annoying. You could be putting the family in a far more precarious and dangerous situation.

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