my mother passed away last month after suffering a long term illness. I cared for her for years without support from her 5 other sons. one other son has tried pressuring me into coming to house that mum owned and that i currently live in. The first twice he claimed he wanted to come to see bills to make sure i wouldnt get cut off the third he claimed it was for photos of my fathers brother (my dad passed away in december) which seems strange as this brother lives 2 hours away in other side of country whereas my dads brother only lives a few minutes away in same town. now same broother is claiming he wants to come to house to help me clear out mothers furniure as he supposedly believes that id like to make my own stamp on the house by getting own furniture knowing full well that im on benefits i was told during this conversation that happened today wed never be freinds as we havent been on speaking terms for 20 years so im thinking why on earth would you now be willing to offer any help as i had asked for his help when mother when mum was living i was told to wind my neck in and stop playing victim also told me he was glad to move away from our mother it was best decision he ever made this was in january when mum was told she didnt have long to live and i said i wasnt coping. Today this brother claims that he along with other members had offered to help yet i had refused I then told a couzin what was said regarding the furniture of mothers house i was told by this couzin that all she had was of her mothers was some oraments and all her brother got was a piece of jewellery. Seems strange that they both seem to have this attitude that i should be happy with having a roof over my head yet have nothing to furnish it with i also feel that this same couzin is relaying stuff to my brother nothing i can prove just gut instinct