I’ve been seeing someone a handful of times, and I did notice straight away a couple of her teeth were heavily stained. I wondered if it might be a medical issue, I tried not to be judgemental, very attractive in other ways.
Last night, during a hot humid evening, I hugged her goodbye, and felt as though her perspiration had a distinct scent of weed. She was perfectly clean, just a light bit of perspiration after a brisk walk, and it came out of her skin.
Over the years, two partners I tried to date turned out to be heavy weed smokers, they were both volatile, shouty, and definitely paranoid. I’ve had bad experiences with this, I’m feeling so nervous. It’s ruining my ability to think of enjoying future time spent - she’s invited me to stay the night next weekend.
Would I be unreasonable to quickly drop this person even though I haven’t witnessed her actually smoking? She’s been really lovely so far - kind, full of courtesy, fun, and seems really into me.