. Met an older man 9 months ago. Hit it off. Coronavirus lockdown came back in. We continued to have a really positive relationship on the phone. It felt like we were going to make it work. I felt happy. Loved. The communication was fun. Loving. He was open with his feelings. Told me he had fallen in love. We both were in that sickly stage of soppy messages and like excited teenagers.
I offered him some space back in march. Things seemed a little wobbly. He had started adding new ladies onto his social media and I wanted to just talk about where he was at. I have young children and didn't want to waste my time if he was looking around elsewear. He ended it.
He came back 3 weeks ago. He's very different but insists his feelings never changed and he wanted to see how I was doing. We've arranged to meet up this week and start spending time together. But his moods have been allover. One day he's into me..the next few it's like he's always online but much less chatty with me. I feel my gut screaming at me. He's not saying anything like before. No nice nicknames. No nice random messages. No positive compliments. I don't particularly want to meet up with him now due to his lack of affection and constancy. I wanted us to build back up before we met and it just feels he's not going to do it.
Should I just go quiet and leave him to it? Or do I confront him?
I just know he's not right with me. I can't shake of the feeling.
Help.