Does anyone else have an all or nothing mentality? Like I really want to be that mum who has a clean house, stays on top of everything, is organised with planning and doesn't forget to do things, while also managing to eat well, exercise, wear nicer clothes and not just joggers at home, do self care, drink water, be the fun and patient mum that I want to be and have it all under control? But it's all or nothing, so it never happens? Plus there just never seems the time for it all.
I have some skincare products that I would like to use for a bit of a pampering session one evening but never have the time once the kids are finally asleep. Plus the bathroom needs a good clean and it wouldn't feel that nice trying to have a pamper session in a bathroom that needs a clean.. so I don't bother. I can't just do one of the things mentioned above it's all or nothing.
I haven't explained myself properly but I always feel like I want to be better in all aspects but then everything is too much so nothing changes! How do people manage to do it all?