My Dad is (was) a proud, independent and fiery man. He is in his early 60s. December 2019 he had a small stroke. He also has rheumatoid arthritis which is proving to be incredibly debilitating. Long story short. He has continued to work (financially he has a lot of credit commitments and wife was made redundant at beginning of covid), he has lost loads of weight - his eyes are even sunken, appears to be extremely depressed (he's 'muted' in his movements and cognitively he is much slower) and under a huge amount of stress. Have seen him twice in last year and each time he appears more unwell. He lives a fair distance away from me. I'm of the impression that he has to stop working now and focus on improving his mental and then physical health otherwise he will not be with us in the very near future. If he doesn't work they will face bankruptcy. AIBU to continue to tell him that bankruptcy is by far the lesser of two evils even though he feels and has advocated that this is not an option? What can I do to support him?? I breaks me to see him clearly so poorly and yet he and wife seem to do nothing to address it. Thank you.