So not to drip feed the thread.
My parents live in, a Georgian house that has been turned into apartments with communal grounds.
My mum is terminal ill with dementia, late stage 6 for those that have experienced dementia.
My Dad needing a much needed break has gone to Portugal to stay with friends for a week.
We had a care home sorted for respite but at the last minute there was not a place for my mum.
I stepped in and said I would look after mum, this is 24/7 and we have carers twice a day, Dad asked all the neighbours if they would mind if I brought my 2 small dogs with me, as we could not find kennels for the dogs. The rules are no permanent dogs living here, but visiting dogs are allowed.
All neighbours in agreement that of course o can bring the dogs.
Tonight I was sitting outside on our own terrace, while the carers were with mum, who is non verbal, needs help eating but can still walk.
A lady came out, of her partner's apartment slightly pissed, to have a go at me, because I had my dogs with me, (that her partner said was no problem) and that she was not allowed her dog here and that I was a fucking bitch, I explained that I was only visiting and that I was sorry that she could not bring her dog here. Which I was met with another barrage of abuse.
I bit my tongue as I had had a particular bad day with mum, no sleep and her wandering all night for the last 2 nights.
Shall I approach this woman tomorrow when, A, she is not slurring and explain I really wish, I was not here looking after my terminally ill mum at ages 69.
B, Just post dog shit through her and her partners letterbox ( I won't do this) or just leave it.