Okay, so I was in a group chat with my brother, sister & dad & we was discussing about my eldest brother (who isn't the group chat) about him moving out cos he did something wrong. He has autism £ is 38 years old, he's addicted fo gambling/buying/selling gadgets like phones etc. Anyway, he was caught stealing off my dad twice & my dad found that over £3000 in Hong Kong money had gone missing from his safe (somehow it was broken into) & my dad decided enough is enough he wants him out which is fair enough he's 38 years old & my dad can't trust him, he's thieved off us many times over the years, even stole £2000 out of my mums account after she died which was to pay for her headstone. So anyway, when things were raw, dad phones the police - nothing came out of it cos dad don't press charges or out but the police said they'd help with his gambling & find him a social worker. So, anyway I was talking on the group chat about making sure if dad gets him somewhere to live, to consider his mental health & well-being cos he's paranoid & needs to be in a safe environment & my other who is on the group chat started giving me crap about it, just bitching at me for it like not even being considerate to my brother & his mental health. I said I'd help my dad with the process & he said & I quote "you can't even look after your own child" & he claims by photos he sees on the group chat of my daughter, she's not looked after. When I told him he's never seeing us again after what he said, he just didn't care. He's very judgmental, holds grudges but always always has thought of himself as the bigger & better person who is always right in everything he says. I cried & threw my phone down after he said that & the fact he doesn't care about how he's hurt my feelings & offended our parenting & child. My daughter is well looked after, if she wasn't, I think someone would've reported me a long time ago. I just feel so hurt & will never forgive him for what he said cos there wasn't any need for it at all. AIBU? Am I right in cutting him out of my life? My daughter doesn't need a shitty uncle who says things like that, not only that he has only met my daughter TWICE since she's been born, shes 21 months now! He doesn't show any interest in any of us, since my mum died he became distant to us all. Only comes to see my dad when it's convenient for him & when it's someone's birthday or Christmas. Any other time, he doesn't bother. He's really hurt me & the worst bit is, he hasn't even apologised. That's how stubborn he is. He's always been this way & thinks he's above everyone else. I can't believe he thinks I'm incapable of looking after my child just by judging a photo of her that .. actually she's looking & is happy & healthy every time! 
