Hi!
So our neighbour opposite is the perfect neighbour, no loud parties, always so friendly and speaks to us, brings our children sweets on Christmas and Easter etc.. BUT, the past few months he’s been out in his garage of an evening (his garage is really close to our house), he’s building something and he works during the day most days so I totally get that evenings are the only time he can get out there, BUT, he’s drilling/hammering/sawing until 9:30 some nights! We have 3 young children who are struggling to sleep through the noise sometimes, the weather has been warmer and we can’t have the window open in their room until he’s gone in. I’m not sure if I should just leave it, put up with it and hope he finishes building soon or should I speak to him? I really don’t want to upset him or rock the boat! I’m laid in my children’s room now with them trying to help the youngest fall asleep and it really is so loud.
If I should speak to him, please give me ideas of how to word it?
Thank you so much in advance for your help and advice!
YABU = let him carry on, 9:30 is still early and he’s an otherwise perfect neighbor!
YANBU = have a word with him nicely to try and come to a compramise!