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Cat rescue silence

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AloneInTheRoom · 27/05/2021 09:49

I recently had to take the horrible decision to have my 18-year-old cat put to sleep. Due to my ongoing ill health and shielding since March 2020 all of my shopping has been done online, including cat food and litter. To avoid running out and shipping costs, I bulk buy both items and had stocked up only a week before my cat was diagnosed with an inoperable tumour. So I thought the best thing to do was donate it all to a local rescue centre.

I phoned the closest one to me, run by a husband and wife, left a message with the husband who said his wife would call back, she didn't so I called back again (in case he had forgotten to tell her) and left an answerphone message....silence has been the only reply.

So, I looked up another rescue centre, no phone number available, but there was an email address. I emailed them and 3 days later I had a reply saying they would ask the person who dealt with such things to contact me......silence reigns from them too.

My next idea was to contact our local food bank, my reasoning being that some of those in need would also have pets to feed. They were extremely grateful for my offer as they have a lot of families who have pets but pet food isn't an item that they are regularly offered as a donation and someone is now coming to collect it all at the weekend, but should it really be this difficult to help those who are often appealing on Facebook and local websites for donations? I understand that these are small concerns run by people who have other stuff going on in their lives, but honestly a simple yes or no would have taken 5 minutes. I had even offered to deliver it all (from a safe distance)!

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TheMadRatter · 27/05/2021 09:53

If you are on a local Facebook group, or something like NextDoor or Gumtree, just advertise it on there. People responding will be local, less busy than a business, interested as it's free and more inclined to come and get it rather than you deliver it (CF aside!)

TheMadRatter · 27/05/2021 09:56

Oh, sorry I missed the last part about already appealing to local websites. But it sounds like you have been putting it for businesses only. I'd just start advertising it to grateful pet owners if you want to offload it ASAP. Also, I forgot to say: I am sorry abou your cat Flowers

BagORats · 27/05/2021 09:59

I had some cat food (which I bought especially for them) and a brand new cat bed for my local cat rescue centre. I rang them they said yes they'd like it so I took it up (half hour drive). After waiting for 20 minutes for someone to appear having rung the bell they told me to just leave it there and not even a thank you. Won't bother next time, I went a long way out of my way to take them good quality stuff. I don't want them fawning over me but a thank you would have been nice. Couldn't just leave the stuff there it was raining and nowhere under cover to leave it.

bravotango · 27/05/2021 10:10

@BagORats I have had the exact same experience, just a really poor attitude. Not looking for a medal, but something more than 'just leave it there' would be nice!

OldTinHat · 27/05/2021 10:13

When my gorgeous dog was pts last month I also tried to donate everything I had. No luck so gave food etc to a friend who has a dog instead.

MachiaNelly · 27/05/2021 10:14

Not looking for a medal, but something more than 'just leave it there' would be nice!

Same experience for me.

AloneInTheRoom · 27/05/2021 10:15

I could have given it away to local people I know, but I really wanted to help those who are having a hard time financially. Anyway it's sorted now and the food bank were very glad of it, but honestly, I worry a lot about animals that are in need and I'm just knocked sideways that the rescue centres weren't more pro-active.

Thank you for the sympathy for my loss - I'm still crying every day, the house feels so empty and I've lost my best friend.

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DartmoorDoughnut · 27/05/2021 10:16

Our vets has a big wire basket sort of thing in the reception that - pre covid! - you could drop stuff off for cat/dog rescue.

TwoAndAnOnion · 27/05/2021 10:17

I'd have asked the vet or PDSA

Killahangilion · 27/05/2021 10:17

Sorry about your poor puss @AloneInTheRoom. It’s such a shock when they seem to get properly old, almost overnight. Flowers

I can’t say I’m overly surprised by your experiences. We’ve a couple of local rescues nearby and the main staff involved are very much animal lovers and clearly less keen on people. I think it’s the type of people who are attracted to work in these settings.

It probably wouldn’t occur to them to make an effort to thank you for your donations. That’s not how they think. They’re brilliant with the animals though and can’t do enough for them.

HunkyPunk · 27/05/2021 10:28

So sorry about your cat, op Flowers
Our local vet is good about taking unwanted food/items and passing on to local cat rescue charities. Also stores like Pets at Home often have bins by the door to donate unwanted pet food. And if your supermarket has a food donation bin, you can put pet food in those. I had amassed a large amount which my cat decided he would no longer tolerate, and they were happy to take it at the customer service desk. It's a shame when people have items which would help others in need, but have to almost fight to donate them (had a similar experience with some furniture)!

ArchbishopOfBanterbury · 27/05/2021 10:31

It's difficult to get hold of the cat rescues round here too, but there are donation bins in our local Tesco and Asda for them. That's what I would do.

Sorry about your cat.

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