I am married with 5 children and joint morgage, so three story goes I have always bin controlled by my husband and at the time I dint mind but he developed feeling for somebody else and I thought he had changed then we spent alot time in lock down and we got back together I had freedom and then he took a back so fast he had tried to get me to sleep with other people but then trying to make me quit my job because before we got back together I wad texting somebody at work and he want me to leave it and constantly text me at work asking if I've seen him or if I spoke to him which I haven't I'd feel really guilty to do that there would of never of anything happening with him because I don't like him in that way he was just a friend and i try to break up with him then he keeps making me feel sorry for him then I leave it for a while and this weekend I want my hair doing I thought I treat my self to a nice dye cut and blow dry it's cause a massive arguement and he saying I am doing it for the person j am working with, I can't leave him could he is like it my house as well but I pay for every single bill he don't pay nowt he did give me as ome money but it qwas just like a one off I don't no where I stand I've worked so hard to get this morgage and he hasn't paid anything towards it and if I leave him properly I no it will get toxic even more so then it is now and I don't want my kids to be subjected to that has anyone got any advice for me on how to get rid with out losing my house and fighting a custody battle cuz he tried this before wen I left him making out that I had post netal depression and took drugs and tried to get custody and he will try his try his best to do it again