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Why buy a house with no parking if you have 3 cars

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Wineisrequired · 26/05/2021 07:11

So parking where I live is awful. Made worse by people buying houses with no driveways or parking. So you now have extra cars and vans being parked on the side road. If you have that many vehicles why buy a house with no parking . Is it me and shall I just shut up. I know it’s not a given right to park near your house but parking miles away because new people moving in have lots of cars parked really grates on my nerves. Anyway rant over 🤣

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Cadburyflakeicecream · 26/05/2021 11:26

All my cars yesterday - me and DD - were parked on the road because she had picked up a heavy item for me and we moved it into the house.

She moved her car after we were done with that down to the car park.

Cadburyflakeicecream · 26/05/2021 11:27

@IgglePiggleHater

Like *@Cadburyflakeicecream*, I dread what is going to happen when cars go electric. It needs to be made illegal to leave charging cables lying across the pavement. There are a few where we live and children often trip up on them and face-plant on the pavement. They're a hazard.
Same - I honestly don’t know where people will park. They’ll have to park outside their houses to charge them as the nearest public charger is 8 miles away
RickiTarr · 26/05/2021 11:30

@IgglePiggleHater

Like *@Cadburyflakeicecream*, I dread what is going to happen when cars go electric. It needs to be made illegal to leave charging cables lying across the pavement. There are a few where we live and children often trip up on them and face-plant on the pavement. They're a hazard.
I imagine we will get charging points installed along the road similar to the old-style parking meters. Maybe with a credit card slot?
misspattylacosta · 26/05/2021 11:41

littlepattilou

you sound so bitter. Why is that?

It's not about being entitled, but why should kids miss out on sports and hobbies because parents ridiculously insist on sticking to the ones at "walking distance"? Hmm

My kids swimming lessons are nowhere near walking distance, none of their sports competition or matches are walking distance (let alone in this town).

In fact, some families didn't have a car at all!
Some people didn't even have a fridge either, so what's your point?

Having a car during the pandemic has been a lifesaver for most families. People stuck with public transport have bitterly regretted the lack of car.

I agree with the kids who should walk to school when they live round the corner but you are being ridiculous with your:

they just HAVE to have a car of their own, so they can get to their coffee meetings, and shopping trips, and gym sessions with their yummy-mummy-pals.
The jealousy is strong on that one! Good for them they have a life, better than being so bitter.

CounsellorTroi · 26/05/2021 11:47

I imagine we will get charging points installed along the road similar to the old-style parking meters. Maybe with a credit card slot?

Or someone will invent some kind of cover for the cable.

AdobeWanKenobi · 26/05/2021 11:55

@CounsellorTroi

I imagine we will get charging points installed along the road similar to the old-style parking meters. Maybe with a credit card slot?

Or someone will invent some kind of cover for the cable.

Covers already exist.
Why buy a house with no parking if you have 3 cars
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 26/05/2021 11:56

Decent cars are expensive. 3 cars/vans even more so.
It has nothing to do with ‘not being able to afford’ a house with a drive.
Most gazillion £££ mansion blocks in central London don’t have driveways or off street parking so that’s your theory out of the window the capital.

That’s just one of many different scenarios. What about people living in Coronation Street-style terraces with 10yo ordinary cars? Oddly enough, some people can neither afford an expensive Knightsbridge house without parking nor a house in a much cheaper area with parking.

If we’re talking about moral perspectives of selfishness, it also surely depends not just on how many cars ‘per household’ but also how many people (adults) live there. If four or five adults (whether a family with grown-up children or housemates) cannot afford to live separately in the huge surplus of homes that we don’t have as a country, they are criticised for maybe having one car (or fewer) per adult.

There’s also an element of unconscious racism here, as it’s particularly common in some Asian communities to live in multi-generational families – frequently in town and city centres where properties are less likely to have drives.

God I love our residents parking zone. I pay that fee with grateful pleasure. Sod off freeloaders or get a ticket!

Out of interest, do you ever park in anybody else’s (unrestricted) residential streets – or would you decline to do that, as to do so would be being a freeloader?

I’m also wondering how many people complaining about tradespeople parking their works vans near where they live suddenly don’t object when one of these people is parked outside their house, doing work for them….?

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Skyla2005 · 26/05/2021 16:59

Because they can't afford it

secular39 · 26/05/2021 17:04

Why do you need three cars? What a waste of money and tax you are spending. Two should be more than enough!

DelBocaVista · 26/05/2021 17:39

@secular39

Why do you need three cars? What a waste of money and tax you are spending. Two should be more than enough!
What if there are three adults in the house??
newnortherner111 · 26/05/2021 17:42

What is wrong is that there are people allowed to have or keep driving licences who are in my opinion either unfit to drive from their previous conduct or medical conditions. Take them off the road and make those who drive Chelsea Tractors take their test in them and you would go a long way to ensuring enough space.

misspattylacosta · 26/05/2021 17:50

@secular39

Why do you need three cars? What a waste of money and tax you are spending. Two should be more than enough!
Who cares, it's my money!

There's 2 adult in my house, I have my car, DH has his car, and we have a family car. Each car is useful.

When my kids start driving, and start having boy/girlfriend who also drive, I am expecting a lot more than 3 cars around the house.

osbertthesyrianhamster · 26/05/2021 17:56

Exactly, misspatty. No one has to justify to others how many cars they have and park in a public road.

littlepattilou · 26/05/2021 17:57

@misspattylacosta

There's 2 adult in my house, I have my car, DH has his car, and we have a family car. Each car is useful.

When my kids start driving, and start having boy/girlfriend who also drive, I am expecting a lot more than 3 cars around the house.

Oh dear God! Your poor neighbours Sad

There are so many things wrong with that, ^ that I don't even know where to begin. Confused

littlepattilou · 26/05/2021 17:58

@osbertthesyrianhamster

Exactly, misspatty. No one has to justify to others how many cars they have and park in a public road.
What a horrible, selfish attitude. ^

Shame on you Hmm

secular39 · 26/05/2021 18:01

@misspattylacosta

It's bad for the environment. Shame on you.

misspattylacosta · 26/05/2021 18:01

littlepattilou

I am revving the cars for hours at dawn, why do you think my neighbours even care - they have just as many cars anyway...

I know that what is wrong is that I don't agree with you and have a different lifestyle and make different choices, you react VERY strongly on every thread I have seen.

misspattylacosta · 26/05/2021 18:02

[quote secular39]@misspattylacosta

It's bad for the environment. Shame on you.[/quote]
I don't drive them all at the same time 😂

and my family car would be worst for the environment if I was using it when I don't need it...🤷

LakieLady · 26/05/2021 18:04

@PaperbackRider

But they can afford to buy/lease and run 3 cars? hmm

Cars cost a lot less than houses. HTH.

And some people get company cars provided by their employer.
woodhill · 26/05/2021 18:08

@mrsbeeton999

Someone near us has just bought a huge £60k motorhome and has no driveway. They park it outside a random house in our road which really annoys the people that live there. I find it baffling why they’d buy that and have nowhere to park it. I agree with you op
Yes that's ridiculous, sometimes you are not even allowed to park them on your own drive in some areas, a real eyesore
misspattylacosta · 26/05/2021 18:09

I wish getting rid of 1 or 2 cars was enough to make a difference to my mortgage or chance to get one for a bigger property! Simple life hey.

LakieLady · 26/05/2021 18:10

@Mummytemping

Lobby the council to bring in residents permits and allocate one per household.
That would be tough on households where both adults have jobs where they are essential car users.
LakieLady · 26/05/2021 18:14

[quote littlepattilou]@misspattylacosta

There's 2 adult in my house, I have my car, DH has his car, and we have a family car. Each car is useful.

When my kids start driving, and start having boy/girlfriend who also drive, I am expecting a lot more than 3 cars around the house.

Oh dear God! Your poor neighbours Sad

There are so many things wrong with that, ^ that I don't even know where to begin. Confused[/quote]
Will you make your kids leave home when they pass their tests and buy their own cars then, @littlepattilou?