Abuse

[Name1412]

My husband has been abusing me for years, we are married with a two year old and three month old. The abuse varies but tonight’s was saying I abuse our children. I can’t cope anymore, I adore my babies, I would do anything for them and they are my entire world. They are the only thing that keeps me going through this. Since my eldest was born he has threatened to take him away from me, have full custody and only let me visit, it’s scares me to death thinking this and this is why I have never left. I know he uses this as a control thing and it works. I don’t know why I’m posting just looking for some support. Sorry for typos

Please please contact women’s aid. You do not have to live like this a moment longer.

Your husband does not decide custody, family court does, when the parents do not agree. Please don’t let him abuse you any further by believing his arrogant posturing. He is full of hot air.

Please call the Domestic Abuse Hotline, open 24 hours a a day
www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/?gclid=Cj0KCQjwwLKFBhDPARIsAPzPi-LW19GLhROjRzPiCw3sgnbxQeONmpSsPlcT9BiJEFdhUi_qf66ggesaAqBpEALw_wcB

They can help with advice on many aspects of abuse, how to get help or get out, and to some extent advise on your rights.

Or Rights of Women rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-advice/

This group can more specifically advise you on your rights, and the Family Law experts will be able to talk you through the separation and divorce process, including reassuring you that your husband cannot in a million years take your son away from you.

Oh, bless you, you poor love

You know what you need to do. Your husband is abusive and you deserve so much better. Please seek help, not just for you but to protect your children. There's great advice above on where to go for help.

Keep safe and stay strong x

Oh OP. You can get out. Please read the thread " I knew my relationship was over when..." on here. You may recognize behavior in posts on there. Sending best wishes. You deserve better