I was with someone for five months after being friends for just 3 months we clicked. . Great communicator. We had started falling in love But he was just not ready for a relationship possibly due to his ex and they split after quite a long time. he tried to make out he was commited to long term stuff but he was just allover the place. He went through a low stage with his depression and that was the week we fell out and broke up.
For 9 weeks we've been apart and I've only just started feeling better the last few weeks. I've missed him. He used to be so funny but also we chatted alot and i had to get used to not having those chats and having his company sometimes. We did just click so quickly.
I was sat in bed the other night. My phoned pinged. I was shocked to see his name on the screen. He sent me a Facebook request and messaged to see how I was. After confirming we were both ok he went quiet. So last night I asked what he had been up to and told him and wanting to understand why he had returned I asked him if he feels like he was truly in love with me before as we seemed so happy. He didn't reply until this morning. He had fallen asleep and he asked me how my kids were. I asked him how work was and asked a couple of things about stuff to catch up with stuff that was going on in his life before we split. He was really chatty and responding to me but asked me absolutely nothing all day. No interest in how my day was. What I was doing. Just talked about himself and answered questions.
I said to him an hour ago id leave him to enjoy his night and he said ok take care. x
He told me earlier he was working away for three months from June too.
Overall just confused why he's back. Why he unblocked me. Why he wanted to know how I was but is only talking about himself.
Do you think he's playing hard to get? Not interested? Worried about things?
I just don't understand him returning like this. Don't get me wrong I'm happy to be just mates and I'm not sat here thinking maybe we will go back to how we were. But I'll be honest I felt like I didn't mean anything to him due to the way he left.
I can't read his language at all.