My marriage has recently ended, it’s been leading that way for a while from my side.
Recently I’ve developed a crush on a colleague I work closely with. Prior to this I hadn’t really thought about him from an attraction standpoint. I know there’s a chance I’m likely just fixating on him as we spend a lot of time speaking, probably more than I was speaking to my husband. AIBU transferring this on to him - yes.
I have to work with him, that’s not going to change, and I like him as a friend too. I need to get over this before we’re no longer working online and have social events to attend too. I’ve never enjoyed fancying people.
How do I get over this crush and stop feeling like an awkward teenager again?!