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Gigglebiscuit · 11/05/2021 23:20

My 14 year old DD (15 in summer)is currently doing a week of work experience, arranged privately, not by school. It's outdoor based, like an animal rescue centre / dog training. Today she has told me that a man who lives onsite and does a bit of work for the owners told her he likes her. Apparently this is because she doesn't mind the things he says. Turns out he has been talking pretty frankly sexually to other staff members - one late teens, a couple older. He's not saying these things directly to DD, just in front of her.

I cannot talk to owners when I drop her off in the morning, as they are not there, only junior staff members are there.

AIBU to drop her off again to work in the morning? I was a bit taken aback when she told me, and I just told her to be careful around him, and not be alone with him. Would you drop her off? This is a known business in our area with a good reputation, which could be an issue as DD wants to work doing this kind of job in the future, though not at this premises.

I didn't manage to get out of her exactly what was said. When I showed concern, she clammed up. This is a place where lots of young girls volunteer evenings and weekends, and also attend kids training sessions.

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Merryoldgoat · 11/05/2021 23:28

You need to report this and personally I’d keep my daughter home until it was dealt with.

The owners have failed in their duty to protect your child.

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