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To remind you not to feed horses

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lastqueenofscotland · 04/05/2021 19:46

It doesn’t feel like it but summer is approaching.
While out and about PLEASE don’t feed horses unless you have express permission from the owner
Not carrots, not polos, no not even long grass from the other side of the fence, there is probably a reason the horse is in the field with the shorter grass.

Horses can’t burp or be sick, so a minor stomach upset can quickly turn into colic, which can kill them, they can suffer from laminitis if they eat too much sugar (which can be from grass he se why not to feed them grass from the other side of the fence)
They can also be really aggressive around food and can do some real damage to you/DC even from the other side of some post and rail.
More and more frequently I’m hearing horror stories about horses who’ve died/miscarried foals/cost owners tens of thousands in bills due to colicing all after being fed by well meaning strangers.
Please please please don’t do it.

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Postern · 04/05/2021 22:24

Someone link to the last thread on this, which got extremely heated!

ILoveShula · 04/05/2021 22:27

That's terrible Avon. What a stupid mother. You probably saved the girl's life.

Polkadotties · 04/05/2021 22:33

I’ve got a 17h 700kg Irish draught who takes the phrase good doer to the extreme and will mug you for food so I do understand what you are saying.
However I just wanted to highlight that a handful of grass isn’t going to kill a horse. Yes, repeated handfuls etc could cause issues such as lami, choke etc.
At the end of the day people shouldn’t be feeding horses whether that be grass, polos, carrots or sandwiches.

Throckmorton · 04/05/2021 22:36

A handful of grass could very well kill if it has ragwort in it.

Polkadotties · 04/05/2021 22:39

@Throckmorton

A handful of grass could very well kill if it has ragwort in it.
Which is what I wrote in my post a few posts back
Throckmorton · 04/05/2021 22:42

So why did you just say this?

"However I just wanted to highlight that a handful of grass isn’t going to kill a horse."

Polkadotties · 04/05/2021 22:44

@Throckmorton

So why did you just say this?

"However I just wanted to highlight that a handful of grass isn’t going to kill a horse."

Because I was being lazy and couldn’t be bothered to type out something I had already said. At the end of the day people shouldn’t feed any animal that isn’t their own.
sanityisamyth · 04/05/2021 22:45

@InpatientGardener

And no fucking bread rolls either. They aren't ducks Hmm

Ducks shouldn't be fed bread either 😜

EachDubh · 04/05/2021 22:45

Our goat was killed by friendly passers by, compacted gut, our other goat almost died. We cleared so much crap from their field daily and we were on a quiet stretch in tbe countryside.
Don't think people fed my pony, he would have taken their hands if they did. But he suffered badly from laminitus and colic and often wore a grazing muzzle. The comments about how cruel I was 🤔 seriously it meant he could be outside and alive.
Simple, don't feed others animals.
Although I do remember holding my friends horse at the Highland show and turning around to discover he had eaten some poor girls lunch. She understandably, looked miffed.

sanityisamyth · 04/05/2021 22:52

@Postern

Someone link to the last thread on this, which got extremely heated!

To ask people to tell everyone they know NOT TO FEED HORSES THAT DON’T BELONG TO THEM http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/4140666-To-ask-people-to-tell-everyone-they-know-NOT-TO-FEED-HORSES-THAT-DON-T-BELONG-TO-THEM

k1233 · 04/05/2021 22:54

I'm pretty sure Johnny Public has no idea that horses are 500kg butterflies. They are so delicate for such large animals. Food that would be ok for cattle is not ok for horses - that can include some types of hay.

No horse owner wants to watch their horse die in agony from colic, which is a very real possibility of being fed the wrong food eg grass clippings. As said above, grass clippings ferment due to their very short length. Hay on the other hand is long, gets turned multiple times while drying and then gets baled. If the hay is damp when baled, or gets wet after baling it may be suitable for cows but will be deadly to horses.

Horses can and do choke.

Horses can also do serious damage with their bite. They can tear muscle from bone.

Not to mention the damage a horse hoof can do to human feet. I've seen shocking injuries on horse people who have been trod on when wearing the wrong shoes.

People need to stop being selfish and not interact with animals that aren't theirs unless the owner is around and says they can.

krustykittens · 04/05/2021 23:05

I am dreading summer becuase of this. The holiday cottage down the road has its first visitors and my heart sank tonight when i saw their care. Also, do not dangle babies and toddlers over electric rope. I am not kidding with the danger sign!

krustykittens · 04/05/2021 23:05

Car not care!

jacks11 · 04/05/2021 23:12

@PerspicaciousGreen

I don’t mean to be rude, but can I ask why you need to have further explanations, other than “please do not feed the horses”? Why would “do not feed” mean anything other than exactly that- do not feed them anything at all? I’m not being facetious, I am genuinely baffled by the fact that anyone would require greater explanation/a list of reasons why. You’ve been told not to. So just don’t do it. It really is that simple.

In fact, it annoys me that owners really need signs saying that people should not feed their horses (or other livestock) in the first place. Surely basic manners would suggest that you do not interfere with other people’s livestock or property? Well, I know from bitter experience that the general public let loose in the countryside are quite often nothing but trouble, so I am aware that basic sense, responsible behaviour and manners are in short supply, sadly.

I am grumpy as we’ve had yet more problems- as we do every bank holiday and many weekends/holidays, especially if the weather is nice- so I am not in the most sympathetic mood.

The bottom line is that if it is not yours, whether it be livestock, property, or land- do not interfere with it. You have no right to.

How would you feel if I wondered up to your child (if you have any) and gave them food, without checking that it is ok? After all, I doubt you have a specific sign pinned to them telling me not do so and why (in detail). What would be the reaction if lots of people started wondering into school playgrounds or nurseries and began handing out junk food to children in playgrounds (after all, children may well enjoy the treats and be happy about that and giving children pleasure makes some people happy).Or if I randomly wandered into your green or home and fed your pets? Would you be sanguine if I walked into your place of work or home, disrupted your work/home life, leaving rubbish/mess and causing damage? Maybe I could fill your car with inappropriate fuel (after all- there is no sign on your car to tell me NOT to)?

My plea to those coming to enjoy the countryside would be to make sure you know the rules and abide by them. If in doubt about whether you can do something, simply don’t do it until you have clarified the situation. Please only park in an appropriate place and only go where you are allowed. Don’t leave rubbish and clear up after yourselves (and your children and your dogs), close gates, keep your dogs and children under control at all times. Please don’t trample over crops in fields and keep to paths. Please don’t handle livestock unless specifically told you can and do not feed any of them anything at all, ever, without permission (even if there is not a sign specifically telling you not to).

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/05/2021 23:39

Also do not give lentils to geese. Sick to death of random townies pushing fistfuls of lentils into my geese. Surely everyone knows it can cause spores and in extremis, beak-dinge ?

voovayclickwot · 05/05/2021 02:12

I feel bad now as I usually fed long grass to some local cows in the park. Is that bad too? I won't anymore.

DulciUke · 05/05/2021 02:28

Ok, it was worth reading this thread just to learn the term beak-dinge.

Local people had to put up a Please don't Feed the Horse sign because children were feeding her elderly horse. Fortunately, it seems to have done the trick.

BlackDaffodil · 05/05/2021 02:44

Im not sure everyone has Mumsnet, perhaps the message needs to be read out on the news or something similar.

olderthanyouthink · 05/05/2021 02:47

See, I'm not an animal person so I'm an animal owners dream pretty much, I don't want to touch or feed your animals but also know not to spook them (hate cycling passed a horse) or leave gates open. That said there's been occasions when I've been out with horsey-ish MIL and she loves to stroke and feed the horses we pass and then she wants to get toddler DD involved and I hate to be a spoil sport and I also don't want to pass on my fear* of animals so I don't say anything Sad

*read fear as respect for the half tonne animal that could really hurt me!

Coyoacan · 05/05/2021 03:18

Yeap. I know one foal that died from eating grass clippings and a filly that got really bad laminitis and had to be put down.

FictionalCharacter · 05/05/2021 03:40

What @jacks11 said, 100%. Why on earth does anyone think it’s OK to feed someone else’s animal? And it’s just astonishing that people remove a grazing muzzle from someone else’s horse. It really seems that some people believe that all horses and livestock are public property, there for them to play with as they wish.

TableSetting · 05/05/2021 04:22

I don’t know anything about horses so thank you OP and other horse lovers who have posted polite and informative explanations. I never knew the problems that too much grass etc caused.

I never feed horses/livestock anyway (not a slobber fan) but do agree with @PerspicaciousGreen that an extra line on a notice might just educate ‘some’ of the people similar to me and help spread the knowledge. I know there will always be more who carry on regardless and that must be heartbreaking.

voovayclickwot · 05/05/2021 05:11

olderthanyouthink

That said there's been occasions when I've been out with horsey-ish MIL and she loves to stroke and feed the horses we pass and then she wants to get toddler DD involved and I hate to be a spoil sport and I also don't want to pass on my fear of animals so I don't say anything Sad

The thread isn't about your daughter's fears, it's about the potential death of a horse so tell your MIL not to feed the horses! Be sad for the horse.

read fear as respect for the half tonne animal that could hurt me!

But it's the horses that are being potentially hurt here! You are a bit woe is me.

Soubriquet · 05/05/2021 05:11

If the animal does not belong to you, don’t fucking feed it. Horse owners are not responsible for your education. Stop feeding peoples horses

Fireandflames666 · 05/05/2021 06:09

Animals and their owners should be treated with respect. I don't understand why people think it's their right to feed other people's animals, it makes me so cross.

If I see a horse in a field I usually stop and talk to it, I'm the same with most animals 😂.

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