DP and I were together slightly before pandemic but our relationship became serious during and he moved in with me.
I have never met his mum. However, DP is going to go visit his mum later in May and has invited me to come with him. Shes the other end of the country so it doesnt make sense just to go for a day or two so we will be going for a whole week. (Also before covid police jump, she is on her own) It is also her birthday that week, which coincides nicely with the next phase of re-opening.
His mum sounds very sweet and is asking what I would like to eat, thinking of day trips to the seaside etc..
However I have never met her before and I will be staying in her home, and it is her birthday (we plan on treating her to a meal out that evening). Normally I would take something with me when visiting a home for the first time, but am at a bit of a loss as to what is an appropriate gift to bring, considering her birthday also. At Christmas, I sent up some home baked christmas cookies via DP. I also am planning on bringing some board games for evening entertainment that isnt just films etc(DP said this was a good idea, knowing his mum)
Any suggestions of what MNers would like to receive from a first time visiting potential DiL?
Also any general advice on how to be a good DiL as house guest/little things you've appreciated or would appreciate (obviously will offer washing up/cooking/teas etc) will be gladly received!!!