FWIW, I think there's a difference between e.g. someone doing up an outbuilding and turning it into a holiday let, and someone buying a property that could be a family home, or a home for a young couple starting out and becoming a holiday let.
But what about people with families, who, even if they would all fit in, have saved up and looked forward to their holiday all year and don’t really want to rough it in somebody’s tiny converted shed?
It really does sound like a lot of people in touristy areas would prefer outsiders to just wire them a lot of free money to help keep their local economy healthy, but not put them to the inconvenience of actually coming to visit.
I'm in south Devon and frankly I'd love to get rid of both. Both strangle the life out of communities. This weekend alone I have had more than 5 run ins with non locals - refusing to reverse their cars length into a pull in so I could get past with a trailer with livestock in. People being asked not to feed my horses over the gate. A hit and run with someone knocking my wing mirror off my parked car. Being blocked in on my land by walkers for hours who had parked across my gate. And then there's the bloody cyclists!
I'm done with them. I work bloody hard to keep a roof over my head which is insanely high. I lost 4hours of paid business due to being blocked in which I cannot afford.
So I no tourists and second home owners are not welcome. Please do not come to Devon.
You’re unusual (and lucky) in living somewhere in the West Country and not being in any way reliant on tourists. You don’t necessarily have to work in any kind of tourist industry to still be very reliant on it. Suppose you’re a car mechanic and you only ever get trade from locals – how many of those locals couldn’t even afford to run a car if they didn’t make their livelihood from tourists? Same with any trade or industry, really.
It sounds like you’ve encountered some selfish, unpleasant people who happen to be tourists – unfortunately, that’s the kind of people they are anywhere - not just when they’re on holiday.
I'm on the Devon and Cornwall border. Dreading the summer as a 'normal one' is busy enough as it is and it takes an age to get to work following caravans and campers. Many locals will avoid the beaches and tourist places till it calms down.
I live in the West Midlands and it frequently takes ages to get anywhere on ‘our’ extensive motorway network, because people from all across the country clog them up and refuse to just leave them for us to use. What’s sauce for the goose….