It’s my daughters birthday today, my ex said yesterday that he would come and see her today, I messaged back saying yeh that’s fine. He didn’t message back again so I assumed he would let me know what time in the morning, however nothing today. At 12 I sent him a message asking what his plans were for today to come and he just never responded. He lives 2 hours away so obviously would have confirmed early if he was coming, I just don’t know how you can do that tbh, arrange to see your child ON their birthday and just not show up?! And ignore my messages, good job I never told her he was coming but how are children ever meant to learn what the other parent is like if you never tell them anything? I am tempted to block him as I’m so annoyed by this. He asked me to come, I didn’t invite him, then to just not show up and ignore me