DP is putting a new bathroom in our house. We only have one bathroom. He’s doing everything himself apart from the plumbing as he can’t plumb - so the tiles, flooring, shower screen etc. The plan was to tile everything up to the toilet and sink then get a plumber in. It’s taken him 5 months to do half the wall tiling - out of pure laziness - the floor is still half rubble and half old tiles. He’s ripped the sink out without actually organising anyone to replace it so we haven’t had a sink for two months. The other day he took the toilet out to tile behind and has put the old one back in, however apparently the water valve (?) is too stiff and so hasn’t put the water back on for the toilet. Plumber agreed to come yesterday however DP didn’t bother to confirm with him so he hasn’t turned up. Now DP is getting aggy with me saying if I’m so desperate to have it finished then I should call a plumber myself. I don’t know any plumbers nor have my own money for that, the plumber that was originally coming was doing a favour in return for some free work from my DP.
Am I being unreasonable to actually feel depressed about my bathroom and hate my DP? We have no flushing toilet (have to throw buckets of water down it) and no sink and the rest is just 1/3 old tile 1/3 new tile and 1/3 rubble. I understand these things take time especially when it’s in your own house and you’re working but it has been 5 months now and the living conditions in this bathroom are horrific