Crush on Work Colleague!

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Not an AIBU really as I know I am! But I've developed a massive crush on a work colleague.

I'm married. They are married too judging by the ring. I've only worked there a month but as soon as I saw them it was just instantaneous.

I saw them again today and the way they smiled at me was so lovely. It was just friendly but all the same. I'm allowed to look right? It's just a crush. Nothing more.

Crushes happen, as long as you don’t act on it it’s innocent. I’ve been with my DH for 16 years (I’m 34 if that matters) and I’ve had crushes about other men but I’d NEVER and have NEVER flirted with another man, texted inappropriately or messaged inappropriately another man in all our time together. Just be careful, if he has a crush on you too that you don’t over step that line! No flirting, it will pass.