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To complain about neighbour, again?

12 replies

WetNeighbour · 29/04/2021 09:24

So background - I live in an apartment block. Not sure if this was an issue that happened previously or we only noticed it last summer because we were home all summer (wfh) but we get a lot of water from our upstairs neighbour on our balcony. I’m not talking about a few drips but water pouring down at various spots all over the balcony (maybe 30 seconds or so of a flow before it becomes drips - trying to build the picture). To help understand how much water we’re talking about, there was one day last summer where I opened the curtains in the morning and I genuinely thought it was pouring down with rain.

They have loads of plants and they simply overwater them. It was really annoying but we never complained until there was one day where DH got soaked sitting on the balcony and another day where I was working on the balcony, went inside for a bit and came outside to my laptop soaked.

After the laptop incident I went upstairs to speak to them but they have a coded door to access their floor so I wasn’t able to knock on their door. So instead I left a note in their mailbox explaining the situation, and suggested that they try and not over water or maybe buy plates for their plants. Also explained why I’ve left a note rather than knock on their door!

Few days later upstairs neighbour came round and apologised. Said he over waters them and he always wondered where the water went (err, where does he think!). He was really nice. I had never seen him before and have only seen him once since.

For the next couple of months we still had some water come down, but not as bad as before so we accepted it. Towards the end of summer it went back to what it was but as we were using our balcony less, we just let it go as even though it was annoying, it wasn’t affecting us.

Now, as you can guess, as the weather is getting warmer, it’s becoming an issue again. I was going to leave a note to let them know. But AIBU to complain about water? I know it’s just water but it really is a lot. For some reason, rather than watering them all at once, they’re watered at various times throughout the day which means we get water at different times in one day.

But there is also another issue which is a problem. They are also ridiculously loud on their balcony dragging things around, every single day and often several times a day. I have no idea what they’re doing but they seem to always be dragging furniture around. It wakes us up in the mornings, and now we have a baby, he startles and even sometimes wakes up whenever they start. I think they have metal balcony furniture and it’s dragged around on the decking numerous times in the day, even in winter. It’s just so so loud. Is it petty to include that too?

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WetNeighbour · 29/04/2021 09:24

Btw NC in case it’s outing!

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MustBeTheWine · 29/04/2021 09:41

I'd be miffed to OP, especially if I couldn't sit out on my own balcony without risking getting soaked! Definitely complain!

PragmaticWench · 29/04/2021 09:44

You could ask if they'd put rubber feet on their chair legs and explain it's loud enough to wake you all up?

The water is absolutely not on. I can't believe they've soaked a person and a laptop, that's outrageous!!

Crayfishforyou · 29/04/2021 09:48

I’d be shouting up at their balcony
‘OI, you just soaked me’
I’d also suggest they put a ground sheet down under their plants.

WetNeighbour · 29/04/2021 09:56

@Crayfishforyou oh we tried but they never seemed to hear us!

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Angrypregnantlady · 29/04/2021 10:19

I'd absolutely go and complain to them again. Selfish and inconsiderate.

TokyoSushi · 29/04/2021 10:23

I'd sent them another bright and breezy note 'Hey! Don't forget about the water, we're getting soaked again!'

And also be grateful that you're not in the exact same situation, but with dog piss, that was a fun time!

AngusThermopyle · 29/04/2021 10:35

Would recommending something like trays or water mats be worth it. ?

To complain about neighbour, again?
WetNeighbour · 29/04/2021 20:59

@AngusThermopyle I already suggested plates for their plant pots but clearly they never bought any!

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WetNeighbour · 29/04/2021 21:00

@Angrypregnantlady

I'd absolutely go and complain to them again. Selfish and inconsiderate.
Agree - I actually find them really inconsiderate!
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Sparklfairy · 29/04/2021 21:06

That's really awful. I'd word a note (more nicely than this but firm!) saying we can't use our balcony without getting soaked, you've already damaged my laptop and if you damage anything else I will be sending you a bill'

Like I say, be more tactful than that but you get the gist.

WellLarDeDar · 29/04/2021 23:00

They sound like they were okay about it the firs time round. I would make a right fuss, like scream and go 'oh my god the baby is soaked!! Hes choking on the water!! Call an ambulance!! Ahhh!' next time so they hear it and have a little panic. It might scare them into being more careful without a confrontation. And be bloody hilarious.

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