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Bringing NA drinks to parties/social occasions

19 replies

LoudNowSing · 24/04/2021 21:05

Is this acceptable? I've recently stopped drinking alcohol but do still like to drink non-alcoholic wines or beers on occasion. I don't expect anyone to have these in, as they're a bit niche, but is it rude/gauche to bring my own NA drinks to a party or social occasion?

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ChaosMoon · 24/04/2021 21:06

Do it! Not sure why you wouldn't.

UrAWizHarry · 24/04/2021 21:07

Of course it's fine. Nobody will even notice most likely.

BuyYourOwnBBQGlenda · 24/04/2021 21:08

As a drinker I'm always quite relieved when people do. Some don't like NA beer/wine but prefer lemonade etc. I try and offer a selection but I'm happy if my guests have what they prefer. I always bring my favourite wine to an occasion so I don't think NA is too different.

WhatsGoin · 24/04/2021 21:09

It’s fine, if you do feel awkward you could always take a bottle for ‘the party’ plus your own. If you can’t purchase alcohol even offer to bring a bottle of mixer.

Leeds2 · 24/04/2021 21:09

Not a problem. But I would make sure you keep them ring fenced for you, or they will just fall into the general drinking pool.

SnackSizeRaisin · 24/04/2021 21:09

I would always take a bottle of something to a party or meal at someone's house. Might or might not drink it myself, depending on the situation. But if it's fine to take wine it's also fine to take a non alcoholic drink. It makes it easier for the host if anything.

Echobelly · 24/04/2021 21:09

Totally fine, I bought NA drinks when I was pregnant of if I am driving and often I find people are grateful because they could do with some themselves for one reason or another

UnprecedentedPoster · 24/04/2021 21:14

I've never drunk alcohol, and so if I'm going to an event where it would be usual to take a bottle, I'll take a nice bottle or two of something nice but non-alcoholic.

I'd never rock up with one or two cans of something just for me though. I think that would be weird. I always take enough to go round a few people, like a bottle of wine would (though usually if most others are drinking the alcoholic drinks, the non-alcoholic ones are pretty much left to me anyway).

IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 24/04/2021 21:17

I always do as don’t drink and like something different if at a gathering. I find the non drinkers are often forgotten about.

FizzyApricot · 24/04/2021 21:20

Totally fine. More booze for the drinkers

EmeraldShamrock · 24/04/2021 21:20

It's no problem. I will buy some bottles of NA wine for anyone driving.

Sparklesocks · 24/04/2021 21:28

Absolutely fine.
People usually bring a bottle or similar to parties etc if they’re drinking so I would see it as the same as that.

If I was throwing a party/BBQs I’d have non alcoholic drinks on offer but wouldn’t mind if someone brought their own too. Whatever helps them feel more comfortable at my house.

NameChangedForThisFeb21 · 24/04/2021 21:30

No one will bat an eyelid. It’s a completely normal and mundane thing to do. I’ve never been to a party where someone hasn’t brought soft drinks. Usually several people.
Some one has to drive, others are pregnant,
teetotal or on meds.
Don’t overthink it.

LoudNowSing · 24/04/2021 21:33

Ok, thanks. I've no problem taking a bottle of normal wine, and Dh still drinks so it's normal to do so.

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Ilovemaisie · 24/04/2021 21:33

I do this all the time because I don't drink alcohol. No one cares.

TaraR2020 · 24/04/2021 21:35

Absolutely fine, it's difficult picking good NA drinks (although if your host provides them its good manners to at least try what they offer).

DuchessSilver · 24/04/2021 21:36

Yes please do. Pre-kids we never had non alcoholic drinks in the house so if you didn't bring anything, you'd only have had water.

beginningoftheend · 24/04/2021 21:39

IMO you take what you'll drink if it is BYOB and you take a gift for the host if they are laying it on, and if they are they should have covered all bases.

listsandbudgets · 24/04/2021 22:01

Do it but take plenty. I took half a dozen bottles of non alcoholic lager to a party once and when I came in for a second they'd all gone! They'd been taken people who were driving.

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