To tell them I'm pissed off?

[ginandgingers92]

Acknowledging that the ideal situation is to "just not let it bother you", in a scenario where just getting over something isn't possible; in your opinion, is it preferable to:

A) be honest and tell someone they're pissing you off, accepting there may be consequences of this.

B) not say anything and embrace a 'letting it fester' scenario, again accepting there may be an explosion point?

No specific situation I'm experiencing per-say, just curious to know what other people think and do?

I generally fester, but often when I do I think it would have been better to say something.

Depends on situation, where it is and who it is.

Depends entirely on what the situation is, and who the other parties are.

It really depends on the situation op

I'm a 'festerer then explode in an awful way at an indeterminate time in the future' kinda gal.

I let it fester and eventually explode because something completely unrelated and usually very minor tips me over the edge.

So for people who say it depends on the situation, what do you tend to do?

I was a festerer - didn't want to be a bother / cause upset. The result was exploding over something minor, so looking batshit, when really it was the build up of many smaller things. After one spectacular episode of that, I vowed to mention the small things.

So now I suck it up, endure the minor discomfort and say there's a problem. It goes much better than you'd think, particularly as you aren't so emotional when it's just a small thing.

I do A