My husband and I had conversations about our target joint income and we, ten years ago, felt £100,000 was enough to own a nice house and live comfortably. Back then, we had a combined income of about £99,000. Our mortgage was large, outgoings were high and we spent years living frugally.
We sold our house in 2019, moved to a cheaper area and drastically reduced our mortgage. I changed jobs, received a promotion and our joint income is now around £92000. Due to our lower mortgage, home running costs and lower expenses, we feel significantly more comfortable.
To feel really wealthy in our current circumstances , I think we'd be aiming for at least £125,000 as a couple. Once our mortgage is paid in 10 years, we'd feel wealthy on our current income.
We both work in Education. I'm Head of English earning just under £50,000. If I progressed to Assistant Head (which I've been before, earning about £52,000 ten years ago) or Deputy, I'd earn between £53, 000 to £75,000 dependant on the school.
At the moment, my working hours are great, I'm part of a strong staff team, my pension is good and I get 13 weeks holiday. I'm happy with my wortk life balance which would undoubtedly change if I took on more responsibility.
Fortunately, here in the North East, houses prices are very good value in some areas and we've benefited from that after selling up in affluent Whitley Bay.