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To be insulted by this?

26 replies

93porless · 10/04/2021 11:23

I've been promised a pay rise commensurate with my job responsibilities for some time now, and my boss recently made me an offer that equates to an extra 93p an hour.

I haven't received one pay rise since starting there 2 years ago, not even for inflation.

Aibu to feel insulted and want to leave instead?

OP posts:
suspiria777 · 10/04/2021 11:36

depending on your current wage that might be a good increase or a crap one -- if you're an 18 year old on minimum wage that's a health % increase! So it really depends. You're allowed to feel however you like about it.

WeatherwaxLives · 10/04/2021 11:42

Depends what your wage is. For me that would be a 9% increase, so I'd be happy. A previous job we got a 2% increase each year.

MaMaD1990 · 10/04/2021 11:43

Depends what you earn as whether or not its insulting. Better than a poke in the eye though.

happyjack12 · 10/04/2021 11:47

I'm a nurse, nursing 33 years, I have a 16p an hour rise this April.
It's all relative. You are free to look for something better paying if you choose

ArwenTheGreat · 10/04/2021 11:49

If you're on £40k a year this is about 4.5%.

If you're on £18k then its nearer 10%.

So as per pp, it depends how much you're already paid and also how other employees have been treated (eg has anyone else had an inflationary pay rise)

PricklesAndSpikes · 10/04/2021 11:55

As far as my experience goes, very few people are getting any raise this year, so... But if you think you are worth more, then go for another job that pays more.

MrsFin · 10/04/2021 11:57

Not many people had pay rises last year, cos Covid.
Be happy you have a job, and you're getting a rise of around £7.50 per day (£35 pw).
Assuming 8 hour day

PinkiOcelot · 10/04/2021 11:59

Why do people always spout the be happy you’ve got a job line?!!

slashlover · 10/04/2021 12:03

I haven't received one pay rise since starting there 2 years ago, not even for inflation.

I started at a job 2 years ago and haven't had a pay rise, didn't think it was that unusual.

MrsTulipTattsyrup · 10/04/2021 12:27

Try the public sector - I’ve had 3% in total over the past 10 years. There’ll be nothing at all this year despite the inflation on basic things like food.

Howshouldibehave · 10/04/2021 12:32

How many hours a week do you work?

An extra £37 a week isn’t actually that bad.

What’s your salary?

FireflyRainbow · 10/04/2021 14:10

We get a slight pay rise annually then bigger ones if we take on more responsibility. That sounds crap.

bruffin · 10/04/2021 14:14

I didnt get a rise for 11 years in my previous job,. I left and walked into a job with less hours and 40% more money

Aprilx · 10/04/2021 14:17

That is just under £2k a year. I have been earning well above average for some years and I would consider that a pretty reasonable rise. I think because you have expressed it as pence per hour you are making ti sounds worse than it really is.

SleepingStandingUp · 10/04/2021 14:19

That's £1800 a year, that's not a bad raise depending on your starting salary. 23 to 24.8k will feel bigger than 50 to 51.8k

UserTwice · 10/04/2021 14:19

If you think you can get a job earning more money for doing the same thing, it potentially would be worth leaving anyway.

But that might be quite a big "if" depending on your job.

Howshouldibehave · 10/04/2021 14:25

@93porless what is your salary? The answers aren’t terribly useful without this context.

Susannahmoody · 10/04/2021 14:26

Best way to get a pay rise is to change jobs.

arethereanyleftatall · 10/04/2021 14:28

It's entirely up to the business what they pay you, and it's entirely up to you whether you stay or not.

SnarkyBag · 10/04/2021 14:29

If you think you can get more elsewhere then you should consider your options but as others have said it’s all relative to your currently hourly rate in terms of percentages pay rise

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 10/04/2021 14:34

Well say you work 40 hours week. That's what almost an extra £40 per week or £160 PCM. It'll pay or at least go toward paying a bill.

Cocomarine · 10/04/2021 14:40

That’s a good % on a salary above the national average 🤷🏻‍♀️
Think you’re going to have to given more figures OP, otherwise your question is meaningless.

Soothes · 10/04/2021 14:44

Unless you're on six figures that's really decent rise.

But of course if you can do better elsewhere you should go for it, if you want to.

BusyLizzie61 · 10/04/2021 14:56

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TheMotherlode · 10/04/2021 15:05

Hard to say. It really depends on what your current salary is, how that compares to the going rate for your job, and whether you’ve taken on lots of additional responsibility since your last rise.

As a standard annual uplift, based on an average salary, it’s probably fairly standard and not something to be insulted by.

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