In aibu for trafic .. but aibu ?
Dh and I have been having a difficult time in the pandemic.
He has become increasingly snappy in mood, spends a lot of time upstairs, hardly talks.
He does not express his thoughts much or feelings and says he is not depressed.
He is just.. tired / distracted / thoughtful .. etc.
He is naturally introverted .
He is laacking expression .. I cannot tell his feelings at all and it is like living with a person I dont know.
Two days ago I talked to him about this. Told him I was struggling. He said again nothing wrong. He suggested that once a week , without fail,we sit down together and comminicate re how we are etc . He suggested each friday teatime .
He has said similar things before like lets watch a tv prog together.. did it once, then it stopped. I admit ive stopped reminding him as he often leaves it to me and I got bored of being the rocket fuel .
Anyway.. it is now nearly 9.30. He wwnt and got chips at 6 pm. Then went updtairs and still is there. Iwaited but he has not come down . It was his idea . I feel like i was just fobbed off ? How can he have forgot .. we agreed 2 days ago.if i say why didnt you come down .. he will just say an excuse. I should have shouted to him to come down.. but a big part of me didnt want to instigated as I wanted to see him wanting amd remembering this time.
I feel really sad and cross. Dont want to come across as being horrible by not asking him if he had remembered .. I wanted him to have the chance to show that he wanted to talk.. aibu to feel cross and unsure if he is being avoidant ?