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Con792 · 08/04/2021 22:32

So my partner does not like his job at all, he's constantly talking about leaving to do something that he's more comfortable doing and he has my support in doing so, however, I regularly see job advertisements for positions that would suit him and he's talked about going into, when I mention them or send them over I get torrents of abuse amd I'm accused of trying to be "controlling" - AIBU towards him or should I stand my ground, ultimately I just want him to be happy.

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LouiseTrees · 08/04/2021 22:56

Say I’m not trying to be controlling, you have the option to ignore them but you said you were interested in this type of thing. I’ll stop sending these on now because it’s quite clear you’d rather hope you happen to see an ad or are happy at your current place.

HardcoreParkour · 08/04/2021 23:30

YANBU. I'd tell him to put up or shut up.

If he's that unhappy in his current job and wants a change, then he needs to make it happen.

If he constantly moans about work but won't do anything about it then that's his problem and he should stop making it yours by going on about it.

Nothing more irritating than a broken record!

Twistered · 08/04/2021 23:34

Don't send him anymore he obviously doesn't want you to.

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