So my partner does not like his job at all, he's constantly talking about leaving to do something that he's more comfortable doing and he has my support in doing so, however, I regularly see job advertisements for positions that would suit him and he's talked about going into, when I mention them or send them over I get torrents of abuse amd I'm accused of trying to be "controlling" - AIBU towards him or should I stand my ground, ultimately I just want him to be happy.