We live in a semi next door to a couple with a pre teen DS who seem to come alive in the evening. During the day we very rarely hear much from them, aside from their Alexa which is set to a ridiculous volume, but once it hits 8pm they seem to create as much noise as possible. It's mainly the woman & her DS, they like to play music loudly, ask Alexa how to spell words or silly questions. The woman tends to have loud conversations on the phone & sneeze at a high volume!? I can hear exactly whereabouts she is in the house with the slamming of doors or even the closing of curtains. I get that our connecting walls must be very thin in order to hear that last one! But since lockdown the volume has gotten louder & louder & this past week she's been putting him to bed by chasing him up the stairs with screaming & giggling. This is usually around 22:45 - 23:00 & always wakes us up! The DS seems to act rather babyish & does this high pitched giggling with carries through the walls. They then spend around 10 minutes messing around upstairs before shouting "night" to one another, then she moves into their bedroom, I can tell where they are with how heavy footed they walk, & then talks to her husband in a loud voice whilst banging wardrobe doors. The past few nights have woken my children with how noisy they have been. I've asked before if they can hear our side & she has reassured me that they never hear anything but we can hear everything from their side. Once our kids go to bed though we are very quiet. When we first moved in we discovered the husband snored at such a volume we've had to sleep with white noise on to drown him out!! We understand there's not much that can be done about that but aibu to expect them to not squeal & giggle at 11pm at night?
We are unsure whether to attempt to soundproof, risky if we spend £££ to still hear them or just move! I think when the DS starts secondary school later this year he isn't going to be interested in his Mum chasing him around the house but as it seems that she makes the majority of the noise it's not going to stop anytime soon.
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Noisy next door neighbours late at night
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Doyoulikedebt · 08/04/2021 16:06
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