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To use baby oil as lube?

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Happinesscomesfromwithin · 07/04/2021 23:11

Just that really.

We used to use coconut oil but then read online that it kills sperm, and that baby oil doesn't and is sperm friendly (we are TTC).

Any experiences with it?

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SionnachGlic · 08/04/2021 01:56

"@Gobbeldegook

Just spit on it"

😂😂😂 Thank you for the laugh!

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Whatup · 08/04/2021 02:24

You need some of frankie's organic yam stuff

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EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 08/04/2021 02:31

Is spit sperm friendly?😂😂

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EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 08/04/2021 02:35

olive oil? (virgin, of course)

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avamiah · 08/04/2021 02:47

Omg No
The thought of Olive oil down there makes me want to take a Canesten pill myself .lol
I’m sorry to be crude ,but saliva (spit) is better than olive oil .
You will get thrush if olive oil goes near your bits trust me .
The cost of a Pill for thrush and cream is expensive ( canesten duo) , surely lube is cheap, i mean it should be .

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Lovelydiscusfish · 08/04/2021 02:48

I have used baby-oil in this context - never had a problem. Quite a common use for it I believe.

If it’s as much as an irritant as people are saying, isn’t it bad for babies?

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avamiah · 08/04/2021 02:59

Lovelydiscusfish,
Then you have been lucky that’s all i can say .
As for babies, I personally didn’t use it on my daughter when she was a baby because I didn’t like it.

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1forAll74 · 08/04/2021 03:20

What do people use,if they live in desert countries,or jungle type places.or even in their igloos in the snow..all places with no shops or chemists to buy from.. They all probably make up their own concoctions for sexual matters. .

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IndecentCakes · 08/04/2021 03:28

I feel thrush coming on just from imagining this.

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avamiah · 08/04/2021 03:29

1forAll74,
Good point , probably their own saliva or water I have never thought about it before now .

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Happinesscomesfromwithin · 08/04/2021 07:26

Well we have used coconut oil for years and never had thrush or anything from it!

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ElderMillennial · 08/04/2021 07:54

If you are TTC then going should use Conceive Plus. I think anything else can reduce your chances.

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gogogogo1 · 08/04/2021 10:25

Hahahahahahhaa "just spit on it"

That was totally my first thought!!

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crispychicken12 · 08/04/2021 10:29

It hurt my DH's penis after we used it twice. Said his skin went very dry.

I'd get a water based lube if you can

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ElderMillennial · 08/04/2021 12:34

I believe saliva can be harmful to sperm too OP

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ShirleyPhallus · 08/04/2021 12:37

@Lovelydiscusfish

I have used baby-oil in this context - never had a problem. Quite a common use for it I believe.

If it’s as much as an irritant as people are saying, isn’t it bad for babies?

Me too. Been absolutely fine. Thrush free yet well lubricated over here 🙋🏼‍♀️
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Lovelydiscusfish · 08/04/2021 18:41

Maybe it’s just a case of suck it and see? 🤷‍♀️ (SORRY.....)

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