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What's the worst thing your kids have done to make you want to break down?

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Burnt0utMum · 06/04/2021 16:56

I'm working from home and kids are off for Easter holidays. Ages 6 and 5. I'm working downstairs and they were quiet for a while upstairs. I went upstairs to check on them and they had locked themselves in the bathroom. I told them to let me in but they refused to open the door. Eventually they opened it and they've used every single product in the bathroom. Soap and water everywhere to the point it's leaked through to the dining room ceiling (which is brand new plasterboard and skim only painted 2 days ago). My new make up that I hadn't opened yet and Lush gift set from my sister that I hadn't used yet have been opened and emptied. I've dried the floor and just had to walk away because I'm just so upset. They know they weren't supposed to touch any products in there and they know they shouldn't have done it but it's done now. I don't even know what punishment to give because I just feel so spent with trying to work while that's going on. DH will be moving the lock out of their reach when he gets home later and I've said they're not allowed their ipads or any of their Easter chocolate. Feeling like a failure. Please tell me I'm not alone having kids causing so much trouble!

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Mylovelyhorsee · 06/04/2021 20:26

They are old enough to know better and old enough to under consequences.

eosmum · 06/04/2021 20:28

@Burnt0utMum

I'm working from home and kids are off for Easter holidays. Ages 6 and 5. I'm working downstairs and they were quiet for a while upstairs. I went upstairs to check on them and they had locked themselves in the bathroom. I told them to let me in but they refused to open the door. Eventually they opened it and they've used every single product in the bathroom. Soap and water everywhere to the point it's leaked through to the dining room ceiling (which is brand new plasterboard and skim only painted 2 days ago). My new make up that I hadn't opened yet and Lush gift set from my sister that I hadn't used yet have been opened and emptied. I've dried the floor and just had to walk away because I'm just so upset. They know they weren't supposed to touch any products in there and they know they shouldn't have done it but it's done now. I don't even know what punishment to give because I just feel so spent with trying to work while that's going on. DH will be moving the lock out of their reach when he gets home later and I've said they're not allowed their ipads or any of their Easter chocolate. Feeling like a failure. Please tell me I'm not alone having kids causing so much trouble!
My DD and her cousin did exactly this while granny was minding them, she was changing another grandchild’s nappy at the time in the next room, they also stripped naked and rolled around in the potion they’d made on the bathroom floor. Granny couldn’t catch them because they were too slippery. They were 3 & 4 at the time, they’re 24 now and we do look back and laugh, you will too, eventually 😉
Alreadyinmypyjamas · 06/04/2021 20:32

My niece was swinging in the gap between two cabinets and ended up smashing a tv.

EarringsandLipstick · 06/04/2021 20:35

@SignMyStookie

Oh and joined the dots on my dalmatian with permanent marker.
I mean, poor Dalmatian but this is also very funny 😂 you can absolutely see the temptation!
Diamondella · 06/04/2021 20:40

Somehow found a black biro (aged 2) (I normally keep them well out of sight) and drew all over my new beautiful tan leather settee. I could have just cried. My dining room carpet is wrecked, I am not replacing it til they’re older, it’s actually taken the pressure off cos I don’t stress if they ruin it even more) Got hold of a new expensive body wash and almost squirted the whole thing down the plug hole. Ruined various bits of make up; a Clinique lip balm and squashed a burts bees lip balm and lost the lid to it. Rips pages from books, scribbles on new stuff. It’s hard work keeping everything out of reach. My 7 year old is pretty good, he’s never been a destroyer, in fact he comes and tell me if my little one ever gets hold of a pen or her favorite thing is going in my handbag. I’ve just given up trying to maintain a nice home, the worst is the Carpets they just ruin them, I’ve found it to be a really hard part of parenting as I’ve always been the type to look after stuff but the mess they create is unbelievable, and the amount of washing I just can’t keep up with it all.

Bumpsadaisie · 06/04/2021 20:42

I feel very lucky as my two have never to my knowledge really trashed anything.

DD in a holiday cottage once found several boxes of 2000 piece jigsaws and mixed up ALL the pieces - took us a day to put that to rights!

DS emptied out all the cereal boxes onto the kitchen floor once.

My Dsis as a toddler crayoned all over the ivory keys of my piano!!!!

I think I got off pretty lightly though with my two.

lydia2021 · 06/04/2021 20:43

Nearly caused a motorway pile. Cant say more. Bet mine was only one who ever did this....

lydia2021 · 06/04/2021 20:44

Pile up... I meant

Justdowhatyouweretold · 06/04/2021 20:48

A much anticipated Christmas Day with weeks of planning, everything was going to be perfect. Had a lovely Christmas Eve and didn't get to bed until about 2am. DD (8) decided to get up at 4 and refuse to go back to bed and basically acted like a Twat.

I still feel the fury!!

But it was all my fault that I was grumpy all day!!

DuesToTheDirt · 06/04/2021 20:51

We viewed a flat years ago, period features, stripped pine doors.

Some child/children had evidently been round the whole place when noone was looking and scribbled reallly hard on all the old doors. There were deep scribbly gouges on all of them.

MsTSwift · 06/04/2021 20:52

My best friend as a kid emptied a whole bottle of bubble bath into a jacuzzi bath it bubbled out of the bathroom and all the way down the stairs. Her and her siblings also got up early on Christmas morning and ripped open all the presents every one. They also tipped soil from a pot plant down the back of an elderly visitor. They were devil children.

HemanOrSheRa · 06/04/2021 20:52

I think my DS has saved up all his shit for the teen years Confused. So I won't go there!

When he was about 2, his child minder dropped him home (she was a close neighbour). I was chatting to her on the doorstep and had put the latch on the front door 'just in case'. DS slammed the door shut, no worries, until I heard him slide the bolt over that I thought was out of reach. He thought my begging him to open the door was hilarious. He then stripped off and all I could see through the letterbox was him running up and down the hallway naked and laughing. And disappearing off doing I didn't know what. I tried and tried to coax him to the door. Nope. Then it wasn't so funny any more and he became hysterical. I was was still trying to coax him to the door, giving him instructions while he was screaming. I was just about to call in drastic measures when he managed to slide the bolt back. Phew!

melissasummerfield · 06/04/2021 20:53

We recently moved into a rented house to prevent a chain from collapsing again, in the 6 months we have been here my 6 and 7 yo olds have destroyed a Wardrobe door, scribbled on a wallpapered wall, sharpied on a windowsill and a dressing table. When were in our own owned home they never did anything like this! We have just come to terms with the fact there is no way we will get any of the huge deposit back Sad

Shinyletsbebadguys · 06/04/2021 20:53

Ds2 executed a genuinely impressive heist to get hold of the felt tip pens (through bitter experience at bedtime they were removed from him and put on a high shelf). The little horror had clearly been planning this as in the 1 minute gap where I was in Ds1 room and DP had gone to put the boiler for my bath on (we are somewhat creatures of habit) he had dashed in , moved a chair , climbed it and picked up what he thought were "his " felt tips.

He had then stashed them under his pillow. Both DP and I heard running but I thought DP was with him and he thought I was. Honetly it was a couple of minutes at most and I walked into his bedroom and merrily read him a story.

Cut to half an hour later when I we to check on them. To be face with a little face drawn as if he was a tiger. Bright orange , surprisingly well drawn whiskers for a 5 year old , black smudges around eyes. It was genuinely a work of art. "For the children at the circus" he maintained.

I was relatively (errr relatively ) calm ....right up until I retrieved the pens to realise they were not "his" pens. They were my permanent markers that I used for training materials.

He was due in school the next morning , I was very very tired and I sat in the hall and cried out of sight of the sad little tiger sat on the edge of the bed trying to explain to DP who was trying very hard not to laugh that he had only planned to run away to the circus and wanted to make the children smile.

After DP calmed me down , gave me tea he admitted he had come up the stairs to be faced with a little tiger faced boy and a sobbing DP sat on the floor and was completely confused.

We have all been there OP you have my utmost sympathy. It can take 3 seconds for them to do something that if they get you at the right time can break you.

In retrospect I laugh my ass off at my little tiger cub but my god I was so tired that night.

Hallyup5 · 06/04/2021 20:57

My 3 year old once dropped a brand new 5 litre tin of gloss paint all over my almost equally as new lounge carpet because she was being 'helpful'. I had to invest in a rug which was still covering the crusty bit when we sold the house 5 years later.

ImAlrightThanx · 06/04/2021 20:58

When I was 8, my elder sister started secondary school.
She was showing me her new blazer and I tried it on and decided to dance around her bedroom. Knocked into a desk and spilt an open bottle of nail varnish onto me, the carpet and brand new, expensive blazer.

EverythingsComingUpRoses · 06/04/2021 20:59

Mine threatened to stab me in my sleep and then broke my windscreen when she was 12

she has SEN before anyone says anything

I remember making potions when I was about 6 but I was canny enough to use a bit of this and a bit of that so I didn't get caught Wink

IamHyouweegobshite · 06/04/2021 21:10

Loads of situs like this, my youngest child, has been very challenging, from painting nail varnish on her eyelids at 3. Various hacking of Amazon or more recently Roblox where £145 was spent, even though I had shutdown the bank details etc. Child does have asd, but unfortunately lying and stealing comes very naturally to her.

Soaringhigh · 06/04/2021 21:15

@SignMyStookie

Oh and joined the dots on my dalmatian with permanent marker.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dumpling89 · 06/04/2021 21:17

@Bumpsadaisie

I feel very lucky as my two have never to my knowledge really trashed anything.

DD in a holiday cottage once found several boxes of 2000 piece jigsaws and mixed up ALL the pieces - took us a day to put that to rights!

DS emptied out all the cereal boxes onto the kitchen floor once.

My Dsis as a toddler crayoned all over the ivory keys of my piano!!!!

I think I got off pretty lightly though with my two.

I'm so sorry I laughed uncontrollably at this. 🙊
CaptainSpirit · 06/04/2021 21:18

Oh OP you poor thing, I definitely would've cried!! Sad

My two are still quite small (3 and 15 months) so haven't done anything too bad yet. Although I'm not worried about the bigger one, it's the small one who's a bit of a whirlwind - she's ripped bits of paint off her bedroom walls, coloured in her mouth and hands a few times with pens, gotten into my make up and we've found a fair few little toys floating in the toilet.

I literally take my eyes off her for a few minutes at a time. So different to her relaxed and easy-going sister. 😂

Pet8 · 06/04/2021 21:21

My kids all dd the sudocreme at some point but can't really think of anything as destructive as these.
I, on the other hand, was a little sod. Having already smashed a tray of dgm's freshly delivered, eggs with my cousin, we were banished to her bedroom whilst she cleaned her bungalow hallway. Hearing we'd gone quiet she came in to find her 3 and 4 year old dgc eating the last of her "sweeties" in the brown bottles. We were bluelighted to hospital. (Were fine after an o/n stay.)

Flowers24 · 06/04/2021 21:22

Oh gawd !! They must have been bored and had a lot of fun with that ! I can understand your upset I would be the same. Hope they understand it's wrong x

Pet8 · 06/04/2021 21:23

*did

DarlingBudsofMarch · 06/04/2021 21:27

All when they were quite little but here goes...

  • painted bedroom walls in sudocrem
  • wanted to see what would happen if you flush gravel down a toilet
  • went to the toilet (number 2) in a house we were viewing. Toilet not plumbed in!
  • lipstick on my friends carpet.
  • inkstamp on another friend's bedroom wall and each other.
I might stop there as it's sounding pretty bad! But just to say we've been there. And they are now great teenagers. Yes, there will need to be a consequence OP and you'll choose what that needs to be but please be kind to yourself. As others have said, this too will pass