First baby due in the summer. DHs parents are HEAVY smokers. They both smoke indoors and have done for years so the house absolutely reeks. They dont think it does because 'they only smoke in the living room' but it's the whole house. If my DH pops in I can smell him from a mile off even if hes only been in there for a few minutes. Weve been to stay a few nights before and I've had to wash all my clothes/slippers/coat etc after.
I dont want to take my baby there, ever. We get invited round for meals often (pre covid) but I've read about the risk of SIDs from second/thirdhand smoke and its not one I'm prepared to take.
We have approached the subject carefully and PILs were really really offended. Apparently it's fine, they were raised in a smoking household, so was my DH and his siblings and it's never done any of them any harm. They have said they wont smoke inside while we are there anymore but I dont even want to be in the house tbh.
The last thing I want to do is cause a rift between us and DHs family but it looks like that's the way its heading at the moment as they absolutely love to host.
So AIBU to not take my baby there ever even if they dont smoke while we are there?
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To not want to go into a smoky house? (After lockdown)
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Sprockerdilerock · 04/04/2021 20:13
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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