Are some people just unlikeable

[Wanttobehappy123]

Just reflecting on my life and I’ve came to the conclusion that
Generally people don’t like me and I am an extremely unlikeable person.
I am recovering from cancer and I never get texts from The few friend’s I have or work colleagues asking how I am. My in-laws would actively avoid me, they never visit our home and would practically hide behind a lamppost to avoid having to
Chat. If they have our kids they put the coats on them when they see me coming up The path to speed up the leaving process, I don’t blame them.
I met 2 of my child’s teachers this week Out and about and both of them turned away
To Avoid speaking to me. I don’t have a history of Annoying them asking them questions about my child outside of school and in fact I never have had any issue to raise with them Ever in school, all I expected was a head nod as we passed. It hurt my feelings.
I feel sad when I see a
Group
Of mothers from my child’s class socialising and having fun together. I wish it could be me.
People find me boring and Uninteresting to speak to I’m sure of it and I have always been this way. I feel sorry for
My husband I’m really dragging him down socially. Pity party over

Yes. My SIL and her DH are vapid and vile 80 percent of the time. They suffer from alcoholism, denialism, with a odd twist of arrogance that is

That was a remarkably cruel thing for your husband to say. However, is your general social persona always as negative as this post, or has serious illness made you feel this low ?

You say you don’t blame your ILs for avoiding you — what do you mean? Have you asked if you can go with the other parents from your child’s class?

ILoveSlipperss you know what's wrong and what's putting people off. Loud attention-seeking people are annoying, likewise people who try to crack jokes that aren't funny. You're an argumentative know all with a bad temper. You know what's wrong. You sound exhausting to be with. Sort it out. You know you can do it.

You don’t sound unlikeable at all.

People who I find unlikeable are those who are self absorbed and selfish.

I definitely understand what you're going through. I am currently experiencing the same thing and I'm in college you can imagine that I'm going through its hell.