My MIL died earlier this year from Covid and my DH is going to inherit about £140,000 once probate is sorted out and MIL flat has been sold. This was a shock as she didn't want him to marry me and had always said she wouldn't be leaving him anything as she didn't want my DC to "get their hands" on any of it (I had 2 when we met and we have had 2 more together). Anyway, he wants to give all the DC £10,000 each and for us to do something joyful with the other £100,000 or whatever the final amount is (unsure of what expenses there are still to pay out of the estate, so it might end up being a bit less).
His favourite idea is to buy a static caravan in a place where we have all spent so many happy times together. One that we can use often on our own, as he is planning to take early retirement in December this year, but also one that the adult children can use alone or come and join us if they fancy a family get together, which we try and do a couple of times a year by having a family camp at our favourite site in the area he wants to buy the caravan. So all good..... BUT he wants to buy it now, which would use up all our financial reserves and leave us a bit broke until his inheritance appears. AIBU to want to wait until we actually have the money from the will in our account? The flat his mother lived in is a retirement flat in a block where there are 8 others up for sale and could therefore take ages to sell as there are always so many available in normal times, now with covid deaths, there are even more than normal.
I don't want to make an issue of it and cause any bad feeling between us, he's so happy that he can do this, and I don't want to rain on his parade, so I thought maybe the best way forward was cold hard facts. I know there are a lot of other costs apart from buying the caravan to take into account and I've heard a lot of sites impose expensive restrictions on when you can sell or when they expect you to buy a new van, so does anyone have any experience of owning a static caravan that you would be willing to share, or advice to offer?
Many thanks for reading