I have the kind of friendship group of four that is really close and at one point or another we have all worked in the same place. Over the last few years some of us have had time out from work for other projects or trying other jobs.
I’ve found that when someone is away doing something else then it is quite easy to feel almost left out of the group. I know this isn’t done intentionally but more so just because the others will be together so plans happen naturally or come together last minute. I’ve found the best way of dealing with this is to just accept that’s the way it is and not take it personally.
I’m planning on leaving my job this summer to pursue a new career in another area of the country and although I will still be living in the same place I will be less available.
I find myself getting so anxious over this and almost worried I’ll be excluding myself. AIBU to feel this way? Or has anyone else experienced it?
I find it hard to describe exactly how I’m feeling, I don’t think it’s anxiety over starting something new for myself because I am excited about that, it’s almost like I’m worried the others will get closer without me?
I’m generally a very rational person and don’t usually get jealous, so find this a bit mind boggling and why would I be jealous of my friends being closer?!
I’m also aware my life could be a lot worse! It’s just been on my mind today.