I've been having counselling on and off for the past 4 years. Mostly to do with my unhealthy relationships which then made me realise it was linked to my toxic parents who have an abusive relationship themselves. They were also not great to me and my sister at times and has damaged us.
Today is my last session with my counselling as she's leaving the place I go to. I am quite upset about this as she's the best one I've had so far and been with her a year now. As the children are on Easter holidays atm it means I had to find childcare so I asked my mum to look after him for a hour as I had no one else to ask. She has done a couple of times in the past too.
I've always dropped my DS at hers which is 5 mins from mine as obviously I don't want anyone around when I'm having counselling.
She's said she's coming to mine today in the garden and I've said you've never come to mine can you stay at yours. She's said why what's the big deal. Well obviously I've spoken about her and I don't want to feel like I'm having to watch what I say or be interrupted by my DS. She just has no privacy boundaries and never has when I've been growing up. Always wants to know what I'm thinking, searching for my diaries growing up.
I'm just so angry she's in a mood now that I've told her no, she can't come to mine. Aibu?