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To expect neighbours to site their fire put away from my front door?

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Honeyroar · 30/03/2021 22:03

My mum’s neighbours had their fire pit on tonight. They’ve a double fronted house, reasonably sized garden, patio either side of their front door. No rear garden. My mum has a terraced house attached to them (they’re the end house). Hers is a two up two down terrace with her front door on their side of her house and a small front garden. They put their fire pit just next to her front door (metal railing fence between them) so all the smoke blew into her garden. It was windy tonight, but even when it isn’t it totally smokes out her garden. She had her front door closed but her living room still stinks of smoke. She’s 80 and not at all well. I’m doing all her care. When I left I suggested to them that it might be better to put their fire pit on the other side of their garden so the smoke didn’t affect my mum so much. They said it was only usually bad when they start it up, but I said it had been a bit of a nuisance on previous occasions. The lady, who is nice, said they’d move it further away next time. The man. who is a bit of a knob, muttered about how it was two metres away and that was legally all they needed to do. I said it would just be more thoughtful to have it further away than that.

I don’t really have close neighbours where I live, so perhaps I’m being unreasonable, but would you put a fire pit/bbq 2 metres from your neighbours door if you had lots of other places to do it??

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Icanflyhigh · 30/03/2021 22:38

YANBU at all.
We love our fire pit, but we do make sure it's away from neighbours and if they're sat out in the garden too or have windows open or washing out, we move it away.

memberofthewedding · 30/03/2021 22:50

Does your local council have any regulations on this?

Chicchicchicchiclana · 30/03/2021 22:57

Why do people have firepits? Filthy horrible things. Urban/suburban life is just that, we're not all Bear Grylls trying to keep warm in a forest.

LongCOVID · 30/03/2021 23:03

Sounds like our nobhead neighbours who have a firepit every few nights through the winter burning evidence of stolen goods rubbish. The fire brigade would like to put the fire out if they get a call from a concerned neighbour over the road that it "looks out of control". They'll also explain to the neighbours how stupid they are and advise them not to do it again.

indemMUND · 30/03/2021 23:20

That close on the front I'dbe chucking a bucket of water over it . No need for that in a front garden. Ridiculous.

Honeyroar · 30/03/2021 23:23

I think it’s just to keep warm. They probably put it in that corner of the garden because it’s for the sun longest. But they’ve got tables and chairs on patios on both sides of the house. The guy is just a selfish knob. My mum had a little garden party for her birthday a few years ago. Just a few friends round her outside table having a meal and few glasses of wine and he mowed/strimmed his lawn because “he always does it on a Tuesday at 7pm”. So they couldn’t hear themselves talk and hD to go inside. He’s not doing it to be horrible, he’s just completely self centred and his garden is his life.

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Honeyroar · 30/03/2021 23:26

@indemMUND

That close on the front I'dbe chucking a bucket of water over it . No need for that in a front garden. Ridiculous.
They don’t have a back garden, nor does my mum.
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