Partner took over the cooking when dd was born, I travel to and from my mums ( I am her carer ) and he is usually home before me so puts dinner on but tonight I was already home, he came in sat down then followed me out to the kitchen I was putting some alphabets on the Tray to go with burgers to which he comes out and says oh I was doing dd chicken, at this point I just leave the burgers on the side and go and play with dd he put the burgers back and did the chicken! He makes me feel incapable like a child.
He won't let us try for another baby despite our age, because we will try when he says we can.
For a long time I haven't felt like an adult around him, if I suggest things hell switch it around or change it up abit ie we went litter picking and I suggested a field but no we had to do it elsewhere where no one can see not that he was helping or anything! Not sure why I've come on here just to vent I think