Background - dh has had several health issues requiring surgery and other treatment, just had more surgery again after having the last one only last year. I / we are thankful he has had it done with Covid but i am struggling. Dh cant do much at all, I am getting his food and drinks and ensuring he takes the medication, get him to the regular hospital appts etc . He is becoming more and more depressed, its understandable given his situation, normally he is always busy desiging things, making things, engineering things, working etc
I cant spend much time with him as having to work as much as I can to keep the money coming in, teens are typical in that we dont see much of them.
I just dont know what to do, have bought him puzzles and stuff and trying to keep positive saying 'you will get better!' (should be better mobility wise in 5-6 months) and then I go off and have a good cry in an empty car park.
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Not sure I can cope much longer
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Flowers24 · 30/03/2021 07:07
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Am I being unreasonable?
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