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Youngest at work & imposter syndrome AIBU

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SouthernTulip7 · 24/03/2021 18:31

I’m in my early 20s and have fell into a great career. The only issue is, is that I’m starting to feel really isolated and my anxiety is rearing it’s ugly head.

Most of my team are 30s/40s/50s and are well experienced although we are all new to this role. I find it really hard to connect to them sometimes and feel like I’m perhaps not valued because I’m very young. I try my best to involve myself in conversation but feel like I’m sometimes overlooked because I don’t have as much experience, although clearly am capable of doing my job. I feel like I can’t share ideas because I’ll be ignored, although I feel like being younger does have advantages as I feel like I can provide a fresh pair of eyes (things are sometimes very old school within my workplace). Because of the way I’m feeling I’m slipping into anxious thoughts and imposter syndrome. I also feel like I can’t ask for help if I’m a little bit stuck, because I’ll be viewed as incapable.

Has anyone else felt like this early in their career?

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MichelleScarn · 24/03/2021 18:34

I think everyone does feel like this originally, just as long as you're notice one of our new staff who daily draws attention to her age
"I feel so young here.." "wow I hadn't even started school then" etc etc! What is the career?

SouthernTulip7 · 24/03/2021 18:39

@MichelleScarn

I think everyone does feel like this originally, just as long as you're notice one of our new staff who daily draws attention to her age "I feel so young here.." "wow I hadn't even started school then" etc etc! What is the career?
They asked my age when we had a introduction meeting but that’s the only time I’ve ever mentioned it. I don’t like mentioning my age because I feel it’ll make things even worse!
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MichelleScarn · 24/03/2021 18:48

Just keep being friendly, polite and professional, I've been been in my job for 15 years nearly now nd still get the the same fear!

Riverskye · 24/03/2021 19:21

Are you relatively new to the role? I definitely had imposter syndrome when I joined my company. I was the youngest in my department, one of the youngest with the company and at 24 I was the only person under 35 who was married! I found reminding myself that they hired me even though I lacked experience, so they obviously felt I was qualified and capable. I'll be honest though it didn't truly go away until I was promoted. When I started they asked if I was on student work experience Blush

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