My ex has decided he wants to start having our youngest son along with our 19 month old from Friday till Sunday every weekend. He hasn’t even bothered with our baby apart from 2 weeks when he isolated with us.
When he drops our older son off he doesn’t even ask to see the baby or ask how he is. I’ve said on many occasions “don’t you want to say hello to your other son” and he always says he’s too busy!
So now because I have been speaking to another man and trying to move on he suddenly wants both children, trying to use them as weapons.
My youngest son is breastfed and I do pump on the odd occasion as his grandmother has had him for a few hours before but, it’s a lot of work and I dont get much.
I do not feel comfortable with him having my youngest son for one night let alone two. All he has known is me, he hasn’t ever spent quality time with his dad, which has been his choice not mine and now he is demanding he takes him. He’s also told me that I better get him on formula because he’s going to be bottle feeding him!
I don’t believe he could even manage both the kids together for a couple of hours let alone a couple of nights as he has never done it before with both of them and it’s hard work. My toddler can also be aggressive with my baby and I don’t think their dad would be watching them like a hawk. He’s also careless with things like sterilising and throwing milk away after so long.